I'm sure you've read the story (via a
link on Drudge) about the 22-year-old woman from California
who is auctioning off her virginity to to pay for her Master's
in--get this--Family & Marriage therapy. So far, the
bidding is up to $3.7 million. I guess, she's cute enough.
There's also a mystique about virginity and an anonymous woman
just trying to achieve her own version of the American
Dream. I'm sure that explains the price as well.
Despite the twisted-ness of it all, I bet there's a modern-day
Gloria Steinem out there saying, "Way to go! You've turned the
glass ceiling on it's head!"
Yet it's so obvious, she hasn't. She's turning to the last
resort, the one Steinem and others like her argued women should
not lean on. Instead of using their bodies to succeed,
women should use their brains. Imagine!
For all her ingenuity, I think it's a step back.
Plus, who wants to go to the marriage therapist who sold her
virginity so she could charge you $80/hr to talk about your
sexual relationship with your spouse?
no, its a step forward, into the 21st century, the century
wherein the only taboo is to want taboos.
(it has become so stylized, "what are doing, Ashley?"
"Sue, I'm going home to cook dinner, then we're watching a porn
flick")
auctioning her body just makes her a whore, nothing more. in the
past this would have been called degrading, but now its
'liberating', 'daring'.
"look at me! i'm a whore!" thats something to be proud of.
you've come a long way, baby.
Roy| 1.13.09 @ 4:52PM
I'd love to know who's paying it and why. That's a lot of money
when you can have a professional for $100. Even Elliot Spitzer
didn't pay $3.7 million. Sheesh.
Coming from LA, I have no idea why this is imagined to be a big
deal. Except maybe they'll stop paying for ad space in the LA
XXXPress and start using E-bay.
She's degrading herself all the way to the bank, but the guys are
even more pathetic. Wow.
Alan Brooks| 1.13.09 @ 5:03PM
the sex itself doesn't bother me at all-- why should it?
it's like the old joke: a naked woman walks into a man's bedroom
and startles him,
"are you afraid?" she asks.
"no" he replies. "I can see you aren't carrying concealed
weapons"
what its like today, it's like being in a nudist camp; soon the
very last thing you want to see, and in is a thing, is a human
body.
Alan is right — those of us who prefer a more conservative
approach to womanhood represent a counterculture. Sign me up for
the counterculture, I guess.
Alan Brooks| 1.13.09 @ 5:13PM
what the reviewer wrote when Last Exit To Brooklyn was published
circa 1958,
"this book is so nauseating that even though it is terribly
obscene miscreants should be encouraged to read it, so they will
lose all interest in sex"
Alan Brooks| 1.13.09 @ 5:29PM
Jillian,
conservative? precious little left to conserve if taboos no
longer exists.
thats why i dont hold it against Palin's daughter for getting
pregnant. if taboos have become extinct, then what did Sarah's
daughter do wrong? was she influenced by the recreational sex all
around her? sure, she's v. impressionable at that age.
in 2009 you're a freak if you don't have sex, its just something
taken for granted,
"what are you doing, Ash?"
"Sue, we're having a threesome tonight"
and the fact that Everyone knows what a threesome is means the
game is over.
it's routine.
Real American| 1.13.09 @ 6:20PM
whore
Basil Plumley| 1.13.09 @ 8:38PM
Perhaps this all part of the Obama stimulus package. The bids are
probably just as phony.
Andy Warhol was right about every person's 15 minutes of fame.
Unfortunately for this wench, the "act" will not last as long.
(pun not intended)
ruth| 1.13.09 @ 8:41PM
Yes, the young woman is a whore and I pity her. Where is her
mother? She is selling her soul to the highest bidder, and in the
process she has already lost her humanity. Fool. I won't even go
into the dopes who are bidding for her services. My heart breaks
for the ugliness of this transaction and for our culture which
has spawned it. Can anyone say Sodom and Gomorrah?
Michael| 1.13.09 @ 10:31PM
Much ado about nothing. This is all about personal choice. Her
choice to sell her virginity. The mans choice to spend (a
ridiculous amount of) money. Nothing more, nothing less. If you
don't approve of such a transaction, DON'T PARTICIPATE in such
transaction. This is a pefectly moral act, as long as all
participants are consenual. The right to act as one chooses, as
long as it does not harm me or my property, is the true
conservative ideal. To impose your morality on another person is
the antithesis of the conservative ideal.
ruth| 1.13.09 @ 10:41PM
I'm not imposing a damn thing on this tart except my point of
view, and that is my right. Freedom of speech is not just for
thee, it is also for me. This country is a toilet and nothing
good will come of garbage like this.
Michael| 1.13.09 @ 10:54PM
Expressing your point of view is absolutely your right, and may
God and the Goddess bless our founding fathers for that. My point
is that what this woman is doing will not affect any of us in any
way. People are condeming this woman for acting in what she
percieves to be her best interests, which is her right. She has a
commodity, which she is selling on the free market to the highest
bidder. Capitalism at it's finest.
ruth| 1.13.09 @ 11:14PM
If I am within my rights, as you say, then why are you judging me
for my post? Conservative ideals at their finest or just a snotty
buttinski?
Michael| 1.13.09 @ 11:29PM
I took the time to review all of the posts in this thread, and
mine is the least judgemental of the lot. I did not "judge"
anybody for their post. I was just pointing out that a "True
Conservative" let's another person live as they wish, without
imposing their beliefs on that person.
ruth| 1.13.09 @ 11:38PM
Well, Michael, I say let us live and stop imposing your judgment
on our Freedom of Speech. We judged an illegal act, you judged a
basic right, obviously you are NOT a "True Conservative."
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 12:07AM
Now who is judging who? How do you know if I am conservative or
liberal? Fascist or communist? Libertarian or apolitical? You
don't know. The funny thing is, depending on who I am talking to,
I have been called all of those things.
My question to you then, what are the tenents of conservatism?
Does being a conservative mean you have to vote Republican? Be a
Christian? Own a gun? Drive a truck? Fly the flag from your
porch? Get married before you have sex?
To me being a conservative means being fiscally responsible
(lower taxes, less national debt, a balanced budget). Strong on
national defense. The defense of Civil Liberties. Freedom of, and
freedom from, religion. Good stewardship of our natural
resources. Free markets. The right to be left alone to do as I
wish, as long as what I do does not harm my neighbor, or his
property. A free and vigorous press. I could go on but I will
close with a quote from one of my favorite authors. Robert A
Heinlein: Political tags - such as royalist, communist, democrat,
populist, fascist, liberal, conservative, and so forth - are
never basic criteria. The human race divides politically into
those who want people to be controlled and those who have no such
desire.
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 12:16AM
I am not a hypocrite. Try it.
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 12:19AM
I didn't call you a hypocrite. I just asked a simple
question.
And try what? Non-sequiter much?
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 12:27AM
Try something new--try NOT being a hypocrite. Got it?
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 12:31AM
Oh, FYI, that's TENETS of Conservatism.
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 12:32AM
If you can point out where I am being a hypocrite, I will 'try
it' (ie: not being one).
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 12:38AM
You're right, I'm wrong, tenets not tenents. Mea Culpa.
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 12:40AM
Good, we're getting somewhere. You posted that a "True
Conservative" doesn't impose their beliefs on others, then you
proceeded to impose your beliefs on me. You judged me for stating
my opinion (which is my right) about the tart and the tart's
future illegal transaction and by doing so you were trying to
control me, which makes you a hypocrite.
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 1:02AM
I went back and reviewed my initial post and I think I see the
issue. Perhaps you assumed that because my post immediatly
followed yours, and I used the word "you", that I was directly
commenting on your post. I was not specifically commenting on
your post. I was commenting on the general furor over this issue,
as I have been tangentially following this story for a while, and
stumbled upon this article in my nightly web surfing. That being
said, I never tried to impose my beliefs on anybody. I stated my
opinion, as did all who posted here. I did not judge you (or
anyone) personally. I will admit to judging your (and others)
opinion, but that is part of diologue and debate. I never tried
to control you, or your ideas.
On a side note, I believe laws against prostitution are
unconstitutional. It is NOT the governments job to regulate
sexual congress between consenting adults. If a man or woman
wants to perform sex acts for money, that is nobody's business
but theirs as long as 1) all parties are consenting and 2) all
parties are of age.
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 1:12AM
No, I understand; you were judging all of our posts not just
mine. I got that. I was just the only one who took umbrage. Don't
pretend you didn't judge us, I could hear that supercilious,
snotty air of yours from here. Admit it, I own you. Also, I'm
shocked, shocked to find out that you are pro prostitution.
Whatever, baby, but until you and many many of your fellow
libertarians can change the law--it stands. What she's doing is
illegal, like it or not. And I don't care what you say, it's big
time immoral. Want your daughter's face there instead of hers?
With your attitude, you can bet on it.
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 1:59AM
You are so right. I have been owned this entire dialogue. I bow
before your superior intellect. I am so owned that I shall
promptly go commit ritual seppuku forthwith........Actually
trying to argue with selfrighteous prigs online is a lot like
mental seppuku. How can we have a dialogue if you read the words,
but don't actually understand the semantic content? None of your
comments actually address the CONTENT of my initial post. You
(and others) stated an opinion. I stated my opinion, then you
took umbrage at my (imagined) "attack" on your freedom of speech,
followed by a few semi-personal attacks.
It's late and I have to work in the morning. So go ahead, tell
yourself you won. I concede. Once again logic falls before the
power of righteous anger.
Jason Smee| 1.14.09 @ 2:03AM
While my initial response was somewhat of shock / appal, it was
quickly replaced by the sense of disbelief (either she's being
overpaid, or I've been getting a better deal than I though) and
jealousy (despite an advanced degree and great skillset I wish I
could produce anything valued at anywhere near that amount). In
fact, for anyone that is still convinced markets are perfect, she
is doing the most natural thing of a market participant and
selling when the market price exceeds the intrinsic value (you
could argue this is priceless, but since this amount is likely
well in excess of what even the most successful adult
entertainers earn over their entire career, it's expensive at
least on a comparables or discounted cash flow basis). While I
fully respect your right to find this offensive, as long as she
is going to pay taxes on her services, a truly libertarian point
of view is it's none of government's business (keep this in mind
as we call St. Sarah a Libertarian). And think on the bright
side, if a bunch of horny old men bid up the value of virginity
(assuming an older virgin is worth more-scarcity, or at least she
has to be 18 to call upon her services), this might be much more
effective than all the abstinence pledges and other failed
initiatives out there.
Jason Smee| 1.14.09 @ 2:20AM
Also, to add one thing, this thread provides a perfect example of
where all this anti-intellectualism is killing any chance of
republican success. The ability to sound intelligent in
conversation (Obama/Ron Paul) vs a bumbling idiot (Bush/Palin)
has all of a sudden meant you're this evil intellectual. For many
of us that argue the party needs to adopt some level of
intellectualism it simply means that they need to intelligent and
educated enough to at least engage in intelligent discourse and
able to support their arguements. This simple but basic example
is found in anyone calling her activity illegal; if you spend no
more than a minute or two googling the story you would find out
she is attempting to sell her services through Nevada's Moonlight
Bunny Ranch, a licensed Nevada Brothel, thus assuming she
complies with all regulations, making her actions perfectly
legal. I know this example is extreme and I don't mean an attack
on anyone in this thread, simply I find it essential to point out
at least some level of intelligence (Palin implied
Jason Smee| 1.14.09 @ 2:28AM
[sorry, above thread was cut off] I know this example is extreme
and I don't mean an attack on anyone in this thread, simply I
find it essential to point out at least some level of
intelligence (Palin implied < Threshold Intelligence <
Obama) is necessary to engage in intelligent discourse and not
get owned in policy discussions, debates, by lobbyists, policy
advisors, etc.... Everytime I hear / see emails of the Obama is a
muslim, hates america, is a socialist, etc.... withouth so much
as any supporting evidence or even a coherent basis, it makes me
sick. It's downright ignorant and most importantly makes the
individual putting forward such a claim that much less credible.
Sorry for the tangent. I do appreciate all the posters who do
their research and do keep of a level of intelligent and thought
provoking conversation.
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 2:55AM
"Self-righteous prigs," Exactly. I knew that's what you were
inferring from the beginning, and not judgmental at all, right,
Michael? You're just not used to being called on your own BS. I
have the right to say what I want--as you do, but remember; when
you tell me I'm judgmental--you are judging me, and if you don't
acknowledge that, you are being a hypocrite. I understand your
philosophy, I just disagree with it. Sorry if I'm just not
'intellectual' enough for you. The owning stuff was just a joke,
I was just kidding. Sorry if I upset you.
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 4:02AM
Jason, have you read that Obama is a muslim on this site? If not,
why bring it up? Every time I hear the 'Intellectual Left' burble
on about Trig's 'real' parentage-without supporting evidence-I
get sick, too. So what's your point?
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 4:13AM
Jason, if you read my posts, you'd realize that my argument was
not based on the legality of this girl's actions. Re-read my
posts before you write me off. My point is legitimate: Michael
was judging us for our indictment of this girl's behavior. I
merely pointed out that he was also guilty of being
judgmental--toward us, and if he didn't see that he was a
hypocrite. His comback 'self-righteous prigs' made my point for
me.
I think the whole thing is truly shocking, but that's how people
get noticed these days...personal shock and awe. The young woman
won't need a career in Family Therapy after this if she invests
her money well. That said, there is something damaging to this
woman and to society in this whole public debasement of herself.
But, perhaps she doesn't see it as debasement. I don't know. I
taught my daughter to save herself for the one she loves. Perhaps
that's old fashioned, but I think she's very well adjusted for
her age in more ways than one. And, I think the guidance I
provided her as she was blooming into adolescence was needed. Not
sure what kind of guidance this young woman received, and maybe
that's the thing that bothers me the most in this story.
Basil Plumley| 1.14.09 @ 9:38AM
To Michael:
What about standards? I understand the "I'm okay, you're okay"
mentality but don't you think this public behaviour will
influence copycats?
At what point does Moral Relativism devolve into Sodom and
Gomorrah/Chaos? Just asking.
Perhaps, you can pray to your goddess for a "logical" answer.
Your "I'm smarter than the rest of you" is quite tiring.
To Jason:
Before you start throwing bombs, I suggest you look back and find
out where some of this anti-Obama screed began.
Obama a Moslem? Camp Clinton first raised the issue according to
an article from Insight Magazine. Of course, Camp Clinton denied
the story when "bad press" ensued. Nonetheless, it stuck. I doubt
the charge and agree that much more evidence is necessary before
rehashing that canard.
Obama hates America? Hmmm, perhaps the inference came from
America watching his preacher Rev. Wright spew his "Threshold
Intelligence" on many viewpoints. Notice, I said inference.
Obama is a Socialist? Maybe, maybe not, but I suggest you
investigate whether Obama was once a member of the New Party and
what exactly was/is the New Party.
Perhaps then you can engage in some meaningful "Threshold
Intelligence" and stop blaming Sarah Palin for your own
shortcomings; which is quite ironic, considering the thread.
Perhaps you can even enlighten us as to the genius of Joe Biden.
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 1:38PM
If you have moral values you are stupid, so proclaim the
Libertarians.
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 9:38PM
A few quick points before I sit down to dinner and a dvd (Charlie
Wilson's War).
Basil: Nowhere in my posts do I advocate Moral Relativism. I do
posit a baseline sexual morality.
1) All participants in any sexual act must be consenting.
2) All participants in any sexual act must be of age (ie: NOT
CHILDREN).
Almost all other rules regarding sexual activity tend to be based
on religious beliefs, which often vary from society to society,
and individual to individual. And as we all know, basing laws on
religious beliefs is a bad idea. Regarding copycats, so what? If
a woman can get some fool to pay an inordinate amount of money
for her virginity, all I can say is "You go girl". What any
person does sexually is none of my business as long as they
follow the two base tenets of morality I stated earlier, and they
don't do it in the streets, where they might startle the horses
and children. Notice that nowhere do I say that you, or any other
person, may not hold themselves to a "higher" moral standard. I
am mearly positing a baseline morality that allows maximum
personal freedom to all individuals.
Now a question for you Basil. Does the fact that I am not a
Christian somehow make my opinion less valid? If you are not
willing to respect my spiritual choices, as I respect yours, how
can we have a reasonable exchange of ideas?
As to "I'm smarter than the rest of you". Nowhere do I make that
statement, nor do I make that implication. All I ask is that the
words from my initial post be taken at face value, without being
viewed through a personal filter.
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 9:51PM
Ruth: Nowhere do I state that "having moral values is stupid". I
did say that "To impose your morality on another person is the
antithesis of the conservative ideal", and I continue to stand by
that statement.
As to being judgmental, calling you a self-rightous prig was
perhaps the only judgemental thing that I said in the entire
thread. And for that I do apologize. Just a bit of frustration on
my part, as I felt my comments were being interpreted
incorrectly.
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 11:29PM
Enjoy your evening, Michael. I didn't credit you with that moral
values quote: I've just ascertained that from various other
posts. My point to you was that you were also imposing your
values on me , you just didn't realize it or cop to it, whatever.
That's it, and I also stand by my statement. The other stuff was
a joke, I also apologize. "Self-righteous prig?" Nah, if you knew
me you'd know that's not true.
Basil Plumley| 1.15.09 @ 12:52AM
@ Michael
You ask: "Does the fact that I am not a Christian somehow make my
opinion less valid?"
Not at all. Proseltyzing is not a forté of mine. I was just a
little taken aback at your flippancy when you posted god or
goddess. You are having a difficult time understanding Moral
Relativism. You are making your own baseline for what constitutes
sexual morality. When it comes under criticism from others, you
doggedly pursue your premise. When your premise becomes
untenable, you resort to the goddess bit and other snarks and
sarcasms. I think Ruth was posting in good faith but instead of
agreeing to disagree you went in a different direction.
I actually thought you were handling yourself in a very civil
manner until you diverged.
I am sure that this topic will be revisited in the future and I
hope will be in a better position (timewise) to add to the
debate. The concept of morality is quite intriguing especially as
it relates to everyday life and theories of government. Like it
or not, it is inescapable.
Michael| 1.15.09 @ 2:06AM
Basil: I was not being flip when I said God AND Goddess, because
I revere both aspects of the Divine. That is actually how I
speak, and write, as a matter of personal style.
Re: Moral Relativism. Because it has been many years since PHIL
101, I took the liberty of reviewing the concept before
responding to your initial post, and I feel that I have a pretty
good grasp of the idea. After reviewing my earlier post from this
evening, I see now that I could have been clearer in stating that
my two statements of baseline sexual morality are my opinion of
what constitutes the ideal. I also understand that many people
will reject this baseline as being far too permissive. However,
that being said, I reject the argument that they relativistic. In
my mind these two rules 1)all sex must be consensual 2) DO NOT
have sex with children, are indeed absolutes. I have just removed
all of the dross which is based on religion, culture and social
custom, which (in my mind) interfere with an individuals right
act as they will, while still creating a baseline morality which
protects the larger society as a whole.
As to my position being untenable, I just don't see it. Not a
single post in this thread has disproved my position that 1)
Natalie Dylan's actions will have no affect on us in any way. 2)
This transaction is a moral act. 3) Most people who disapprove of
this transaction are imposing their personal moral standards on a
person who does not share those standards. 4) If a person thinks
that this type of transaction is immoral, then don't participate
in this type of transaction.
As to accusations of sarcasim and snarkiness, I will submit an
Alford Plea. (Here in the State of Washington, an Alford Plea, is
where the defendent, while not pleading guilty, admits that a
jury would most likely find him guilty, and submits to the courts
judgement.)
"2) This transaction is a moral act. 3) Most people who
disapprove of this transaction are imposing their personal moral
standards on a person who does not share those standards."
You adjudicating the act as "moral" in #2 is imposing YOUR moral
framework on the nation. Most of us, who hold a traditional
judeo-christian understanding, would disagree with you.
Of course, in the great land of your ego, I guess your moral
framework matters while those who disagree with you do not. And I
guess, for you, that holds true regardless of which view is
actually held by the majority, or more importantly, proven to
help foster a stable and prosperous society over the past two and
a half centuries.
ruth| 1.15.09 @ 3:45PM
Thank you, Fredo, I thought I was going crazy. You made my point
in a clear and concise manner. It's funny, but I guess Mike
doesn't understand that his original post was judgmental,
dogmatic really. He set the premise, and if you disagreed with it
you were not a 'true conservative', you were a 'controller'. He
has an opinion, which is fine, but it is no more legitimate than
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Alan Brooks| 1.13.09 @ 4:46PM
no, its a step forward, into the 21st century, the century wherein the only taboo is to want taboos.
(it has become so stylized, "what are doing, Ashley?"
"Sue, I'm going home to cook dinner, then we're watching a porn flick")
auctioning her body just makes her a whore, nothing more. in the past this would have been called degrading, but now its 'liberating', 'daring'.
"look at me! i'm a whore!" thats something to be proud of.
you've come a long way, baby.
Roy| 1.13.09 @ 4:52PM
I'd love to know who's paying it and why. That's a lot of money when you can have a professional for $100. Even Elliot Spitzer didn't pay $3.7 million. Sheesh.
Coming from LA, I have no idea why this is imagined to be a big deal. Except maybe they'll stop paying for ad space in the LA XXXPress and start using E-bay.
She's degrading herself all the way to the bank, but the guys are even more pathetic. Wow.
Alan Brooks| 1.13.09 @ 5:03PM
the sex itself doesn't bother me at all-- why should it?
it's like the old joke: a naked woman walks into a man's bedroom and startles him,
"are you afraid?" she asks.
"no" he replies. "I can see you aren't carrying concealed weapons"
what its like today, it's like being in a nudist camp; soon the very last thing you want to see, and in is a thing, is a human body.
Jillian Bandes| 1.13.09 @ 5:10PM
Alan is right — those of us who prefer a more conservative approach to womanhood represent a counterculture. Sign me up for the counterculture, I guess.
Alan Brooks| 1.13.09 @ 5:13PM
what the reviewer wrote when Last Exit To Brooklyn was published circa 1958,
"this book is so nauseating that even though it is terribly obscene miscreants should be encouraged to read it, so they will lose all interest in sex"
Alan Brooks| 1.13.09 @ 5:29PM
Jillian,
conservative? precious little left to conserve if taboos no longer exists.
thats why i dont hold it against Palin's daughter for getting pregnant. if taboos have become extinct, then what did Sarah's daughter do wrong? was she influenced by the recreational sex all around her? sure, she's v. impressionable at that age.
in 2009 you're a freak if you don't have sex, its just something taken for granted,
"what are you doing, Ash?"
"Sue, we're having a threesome tonight"
and the fact that Everyone knows what a threesome is means the game is over.
it's routine.
Real American| 1.13.09 @ 6:20PM
whore
Basil Plumley| 1.13.09 @ 8:38PM
Perhaps this all part of the Obama stimulus package. The bids are probably just as phony.
Andy Warhol was right about every person's 15 minutes of fame. Unfortunately for this wench, the "act" will not last as long. (pun not intended)
ruth| 1.13.09 @ 8:41PM
Yes, the young woman is a whore and I pity her. Where is her mother? She is selling her soul to the highest bidder, and in the process she has already lost her humanity. Fool. I won't even go into the dopes who are bidding for her services. My heart breaks for the ugliness of this transaction and for our culture which has spawned it. Can anyone say Sodom and Gomorrah?
Michael| 1.13.09 @ 10:31PM
Much ado about nothing. This is all about personal choice. Her choice to sell her virginity. The mans choice to spend (a ridiculous amount of) money. Nothing more, nothing less. If you don't approve of such a transaction, DON'T PARTICIPATE in such transaction. This is a pefectly moral act, as long as all participants are consenual. The right to act as one chooses, as long as it does not harm me or my property, is the true conservative ideal. To impose your morality on another person is the antithesis of the conservative ideal.
ruth| 1.13.09 @ 10:41PM
I'm not imposing a damn thing on this tart except my point of view, and that is my right. Freedom of speech is not just for thee, it is also for me. This country is a toilet and nothing good will come of garbage like this.
Michael| 1.13.09 @ 10:54PM
Expressing your point of view is absolutely your right, and may God and the Goddess bless our founding fathers for that. My point is that what this woman is doing will not affect any of us in any way. People are condeming this woman for acting in what she percieves to be her best interests, which is her right. She has a commodity, which she is selling on the free market to the highest bidder. Capitalism at it's finest.
ruth| 1.13.09 @ 11:14PM
If I am within my rights, as you say, then why are you judging me for my post? Conservative ideals at their finest or just a snotty buttinski?
Michael| 1.13.09 @ 11:29PM
I took the time to review all of the posts in this thread, and mine is the least judgemental of the lot. I did not "judge" anybody for their post. I was just pointing out that a "True Conservative" let's another person live as they wish, without imposing their beliefs on that person.
ruth| 1.13.09 @ 11:38PM
Well, Michael, I say let us live and stop imposing your judgment on our Freedom of Speech. We judged an illegal act, you judged a basic right, obviously you are NOT a "True Conservative."
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 12:07AM
Now who is judging who? How do you know if I am conservative or liberal? Fascist or communist? Libertarian or apolitical? You don't know. The funny thing is, depending on who I am talking to, I have been called all of those things.
My question to you then, what are the tenents of conservatism? Does being a conservative mean you have to vote Republican? Be a Christian? Own a gun? Drive a truck? Fly the flag from your porch? Get married before you have sex?
To me being a conservative means being fiscally responsible (lower taxes, less national debt, a balanced budget). Strong on national defense. The defense of Civil Liberties. Freedom of, and freedom from, religion. Good stewardship of our natural resources. Free markets. The right to be left alone to do as I wish, as long as what I do does not harm my neighbor, or his property. A free and vigorous press. I could go on but I will close with a quote from one of my favorite authors. Robert A Heinlein: Political tags - such as royalist, communist, democrat, populist, fascist, liberal, conservative, and so forth - are never basic criteria. The human race divides politically into those who want people to be controlled and those who have no such desire.
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 12:16AM
I am not a hypocrite. Try it.
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 12:19AM
I didn't call you a hypocrite. I just asked a simple question.
And try what? Non-sequiter much?
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 12:27AM
Try something new--try NOT being a hypocrite. Got it?
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 12:31AM
Oh, FYI, that's TENETS of Conservatism.
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 12:32AM
If you can point out where I am being a hypocrite, I will 'try it' (ie: not being one).
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 12:38AM
You're right, I'm wrong, tenets not tenents. Mea Culpa.
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 12:40AM
Good, we're getting somewhere. You posted that a "True Conservative" doesn't impose their beliefs on others, then you proceeded to impose your beliefs on me. You judged me for stating my opinion (which is my right) about the tart and the tart's future illegal transaction and by doing so you were trying to control me, which makes you a hypocrite.
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 1:02AM
I went back and reviewed my initial post and I think I see the issue. Perhaps you assumed that because my post immediatly followed yours, and I used the word "you", that I was directly commenting on your post. I was not specifically commenting on your post. I was commenting on the general furor over this issue, as I have been tangentially following this story for a while, and stumbled upon this article in my nightly web surfing. That being said, I never tried to impose my beliefs on anybody. I stated my opinion, as did all who posted here. I did not judge you (or anyone) personally. I will admit to judging your (and others) opinion, but that is part of diologue and debate. I never tried to control you, or your ideas.
On a side note, I believe laws against prostitution are unconstitutional. It is NOT the governments job to regulate sexual congress between consenting adults. If a man or woman wants to perform sex acts for money, that is nobody's business but theirs as long as 1) all parties are consenting and 2) all parties are of age.
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 1:12AM
No, I understand; you were judging all of our posts not just mine. I got that. I was just the only one who took umbrage. Don't pretend you didn't judge us, I could hear that supercilious, snotty air of yours from here. Admit it, I own you. Also, I'm shocked, shocked to find out that you are pro prostitution. Whatever, baby, but until you and many many of your fellow libertarians can change the law--it stands. What she's doing is illegal, like it or not. And I don't care what you say, it's big time immoral. Want your daughter's face there instead of hers? With your attitude, you can bet on it.
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 1:59AM
You are so right. I have been owned this entire dialogue. I bow before your superior intellect. I am so owned that I shall promptly go commit ritual seppuku forthwith........Actually trying to argue with selfrighteous prigs online is a lot like mental seppuku. How can we have a dialogue if you read the words, but don't actually understand the semantic content? None of your comments actually address the CONTENT of my initial post. You (and others) stated an opinion. I stated my opinion, then you took umbrage at my (imagined) "attack" on your freedom of speech, followed by a few semi-personal attacks.
It's late and I have to work in the morning. So go ahead, tell yourself you won. I concede. Once again logic falls before the power of righteous anger.
Jason Smee| 1.14.09 @ 2:03AM
While my initial response was somewhat of shock / appal, it was quickly replaced by the sense of disbelief (either she's being overpaid, or I've been getting a better deal than I though) and jealousy (despite an advanced degree and great skillset I wish I could produce anything valued at anywhere near that amount). In fact, for anyone that is still convinced markets are perfect, she is doing the most natural thing of a market participant and selling when the market price exceeds the intrinsic value (you could argue this is priceless, but since this amount is likely well in excess of what even the most successful adult entertainers earn over their entire career, it's expensive at least on a comparables or discounted cash flow basis). While I fully respect your right to find this offensive, as long as she is going to pay taxes on her services, a truly libertarian point of view is it's none of government's business (keep this in mind as we call St. Sarah a Libertarian). And think on the bright side, if a bunch of horny old men bid up the value of virginity (assuming an older virgin is worth more-scarcity, or at least she has to be 18 to call upon her services), this might be much more effective than all the abstinence pledges and other failed initiatives out there.
Jason Smee| 1.14.09 @ 2:20AM
Also, to add one thing, this thread provides a perfect example of where all this anti-intellectualism is killing any chance of republican success. The ability to sound intelligent in conversation (Obama/Ron Paul) vs a bumbling idiot (Bush/Palin) has all of a sudden meant you're this evil intellectual. For many of us that argue the party needs to adopt some level of intellectualism it simply means that they need to intelligent and educated enough to at least engage in intelligent discourse and able to support their arguements. This simple but basic example is found in anyone calling her activity illegal; if you spend no more than a minute or two googling the story you would find out she is attempting to sell her services through Nevada's Moonlight Bunny Ranch, a licensed Nevada Brothel, thus assuming she complies with all regulations, making her actions perfectly legal. I know this example is extreme and I don't mean an attack on anyone in this thread, simply I find it essential to point out at least some level of intelligence (Palin implied
Jason Smee| 1.14.09 @ 2:28AM
[sorry, above thread was cut off] I know this example is extreme and I don't mean an attack on anyone in this thread, simply I find it essential to point out at least some level of intelligence (Palin implied < Threshold Intelligence < Obama) is necessary to engage in intelligent discourse and not get owned in policy discussions, debates, by lobbyists, policy advisors, etc.... Everytime I hear / see emails of the Obama is a muslim, hates america, is a socialist, etc.... withouth so much as any supporting evidence or even a coherent basis, it makes me sick. It's downright ignorant and most importantly makes the individual putting forward such a claim that much less credible. Sorry for the tangent. I do appreciate all the posters who do their research and do keep of a level of intelligent and thought provoking conversation.
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 2:55AM
"Self-righteous prigs," Exactly. I knew that's what you were inferring from the beginning, and not judgmental at all, right, Michael? You're just not used to being called on your own BS. I have the right to say what I want--as you do, but remember; when you tell me I'm judgmental--you are judging me, and if you don't acknowledge that, you are being a hypocrite. I understand your philosophy, I just disagree with it. Sorry if I'm just not 'intellectual' enough for you. The owning stuff was just a joke, I was just kidding. Sorry if I upset you.
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 4:02AM
Jason, have you read that Obama is a muslim on this site? If not, why bring it up? Every time I hear the 'Intellectual Left' burble on about Trig's 'real' parentage-without supporting evidence-I get sick, too. So what's your point?
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 4:13AM
Jason, if you read my posts, you'd realize that my argument was not based on the legality of this girl's actions. Re-read my posts before you write me off. My point is legitimate: Michael was judging us for our indictment of this girl's behavior. I merely pointed out that he was also guilty of being judgmental--toward us, and if he didn't see that he was a hypocrite. His comback 'self-righteous prigs' made my point for me.
Deborah| 1.14.09 @ 5:28AM
I think the whole thing is truly shocking, but that's how people get noticed these days...personal shock and awe. The young woman won't need a career in Family Therapy after this if she invests her money well. That said, there is something damaging to this woman and to society in this whole public debasement of herself. But, perhaps she doesn't see it as debasement. I don't know. I taught my daughter to save herself for the one she loves. Perhaps that's old fashioned, but I think she's very well adjusted for her age in more ways than one. And, I think the guidance I provided her as she was blooming into adolescence was needed. Not sure what kind of guidance this young woman received, and maybe that's the thing that bothers me the most in this story.
Basil Plumley| 1.14.09 @ 9:38AM
To Michael:
What about standards? I understand the "I'm okay, you're okay" mentality but don't you think this public behaviour will influence copycats?
At what point does Moral Relativism devolve into Sodom and Gomorrah/Chaos? Just asking.
Perhaps, you can pray to your goddess for a "logical" answer. Your "I'm smarter than the rest of you" is quite tiring.
To Jason:
Before you start throwing bombs, I suggest you look back and find out where some of this anti-Obama screed began.
Obama a Moslem? Camp Clinton first raised the issue according to an article from Insight Magazine. Of course, Camp Clinton denied the story when "bad press" ensued. Nonetheless, it stuck. I doubt the charge and agree that much more evidence is necessary before rehashing that canard.
Obama hates America? Hmmm, perhaps the inference came from America watching his preacher Rev. Wright spew his "Threshold Intelligence" on many viewpoints. Notice, I said inference.
Obama is a Socialist? Maybe, maybe not, but I suggest you investigate whether Obama was once a member of the New Party and what exactly was/is the New Party.
Perhaps then you can engage in some meaningful "Threshold Intelligence" and stop blaming Sarah Palin for your own shortcomings; which is quite ironic, considering the thread.
Perhaps you can even enlighten us as to the genius of Joe Biden.
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 1:38PM
If you have moral values you are stupid, so proclaim the Libertarians.
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 9:38PM
A few quick points before I sit down to dinner and a dvd (Charlie Wilson's War).
Basil: Nowhere in my posts do I advocate Moral Relativism. I do posit a baseline sexual morality.
1) All participants in any sexual act must be consenting.
2) All participants in any sexual act must be of age (ie: NOT CHILDREN).
Almost all other rules regarding sexual activity tend to be based on religious beliefs, which often vary from society to society, and individual to individual. And as we all know, basing laws on religious beliefs is a bad idea. Regarding copycats, so what? If a woman can get some fool to pay an inordinate amount of money for her virginity, all I can say is "You go girl". What any person does sexually is none of my business as long as they follow the two base tenets of morality I stated earlier, and they don't do it in the streets, where they might startle the horses and children. Notice that nowhere do I say that you, or any other person, may not hold themselves to a "higher" moral standard. I am mearly positing a baseline morality that allows maximum personal freedom to all individuals.
Now a question for you Basil. Does the fact that I am not a Christian somehow make my opinion less valid? If you are not willing to respect my spiritual choices, as I respect yours, how can we have a reasonable exchange of ideas?
As to "I'm smarter than the rest of you". Nowhere do I make that statement, nor do I make that implication. All I ask is that the words from my initial post be taken at face value, without being viewed through a personal filter.
Michael| 1.14.09 @ 9:51PM
Ruth: Nowhere do I state that "having moral values is stupid". I did say that "To impose your morality on another person is the antithesis of the conservative ideal", and I continue to stand by that statement.
As to being judgmental, calling you a self-rightous prig was perhaps the only judgemental thing that I said in the entire thread. And for that I do apologize. Just a bit of frustration on my part, as I felt my comments were being interpreted incorrectly.
ruth| 1.14.09 @ 11:29PM
Enjoy your evening, Michael. I didn't credit you with that moral values quote: I've just ascertained that from various other posts. My point to you was that you were also imposing your values on me , you just didn't realize it or cop to it, whatever. That's it, and I also stand by my statement. The other stuff was a joke, I also apologize. "Self-righteous prig?" Nah, if you knew me you'd know that's not true.
Basil Plumley| 1.15.09 @ 12:52AM
@ Michael
You ask: "Does the fact that I am not a Christian somehow make my opinion less valid?"
Not at all. Proseltyzing is not a forté of mine. I was just a little taken aback at your flippancy when you posted god or goddess. You are having a difficult time understanding Moral Relativism. You are making your own baseline for what constitutes sexual morality. When it comes under criticism from others, you doggedly pursue your premise. When your premise becomes untenable, you resort to the goddess bit and other snarks and sarcasms. I think Ruth was posting in good faith but instead of agreeing to disagree you went in a different direction.
I actually thought you were handling yourself in a very civil manner until you diverged.
I am sure that this topic will be revisited in the future and I hope will be in a better position (timewise) to add to the debate. The concept of morality is quite intriguing especially as it relates to everyday life and theories of government. Like it or not, it is inescapable.
Michael| 1.15.09 @ 2:06AM
Basil: I was not being flip when I said God AND Goddess, because I revere both aspects of the Divine. That is actually how I speak, and write, as a matter of personal style.
Re: Moral Relativism. Because it has been many years since PHIL 101, I took the liberty of reviewing the concept before responding to your initial post, and I feel that I have a pretty good grasp of the idea. After reviewing my earlier post from this evening, I see now that I could have been clearer in stating that my two statements of baseline sexual morality are my opinion of what constitutes the ideal. I also understand that many people will reject this baseline as being far too permissive. However, that being said, I reject the argument that they relativistic. In my mind these two rules 1)all sex must be consensual 2) DO NOT have sex with children, are indeed absolutes. I have just removed all of the dross which is based on religion, culture and social custom, which (in my mind) interfere with an individuals right act as they will, while still creating a baseline morality which protects the larger society as a whole.
As to my position being untenable, I just don't see it. Not a single post in this thread has disproved my position that 1) Natalie Dylan's actions will have no affect on us in any way. 2) This transaction is a moral act. 3) Most people who disapprove of this transaction are imposing their personal moral standards on a person who does not share those standards. 4) If a person thinks that this type of transaction is immoral, then don't participate in this type of transaction.
As to accusations of sarcasim and snarkiness, I will submit an Alford Plea. (Here in the State of Washington, an Alford Plea, is where the defendent, while not pleading guilty, admits that a jury would most likely find him guilty, and submits to the courts judgement.)
Fredo| 1.15.09 @ 1:03PM
Michael,
"2) This transaction is a moral act. 3) Most people who disapprove of this transaction are imposing their personal moral standards on a person who does not share those standards."
You adjudicating the act as "moral" in #2 is imposing YOUR moral framework on the nation. Most of us, who hold a traditional judeo-christian understanding, would disagree with you.
Of course, in the great land of your ego, I guess your moral framework matters while those who disagree with you do not. And I guess, for you, that holds true regardless of which view is actually held by the majority, or more importantly, proven to help foster a stable and prosperous society over the past two and a half centuries.
ruth| 1.15.09 @ 3:45PM
Thank you, Fredo, I thought I was going crazy. You made my point in a clear and concise manner. It's funny, but I guess Mike doesn't understand that his original post was judgmental, dogmatic really. He set the premise, and if you disagreed with it you were not a 'true conservative', you were a 'controller'. He has an opinion, which is fine, but it is no more legitimate than mine.
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