Two interesting articles appeared within a day of each other on
the World Wide Web this week. The
New York Times reported that over the course of the
last 50 years, the number of overweight American women has grown
dramatically, the conclusion being that as an increasing number of
women leave home to enter the workforce and take on sedentary desk
jobs, they neglect household chores which burn loads of calories.
The report is being touted as “controversial,”
as most studies that say what people don’t want to hear are.
The Telegraph, though, says the 1950s housewife is making
a comeback “on catwalks and in popular culture.” For example,
viewers find Betty Draper, a main character in AMC’s Mad Men and
the quintessential domestic diva (think of an icier June Cleaver,
with the same polished, classy look and ladylike lifestyle), to be
appealing. She mentions once off the cuff that she has a degree in
anthropology from Bryn Mawr, although the focus of much of her
at-home discontent is brought about by a distant, deceptive,
carousing husband, not the laundry.
Did women in the 1960s rebel against the housewife profession
because it was really so awful, or because they wanted to show that
they could? Staying at home in your pajamas ‘til noon, vacuuming to
your favorite song, planning dinner, and hanging out with kids —
isn’t that what most modern people call “Saturday”? Oh, and it’s
good for your figure, too.
Yes, the world has benefited greatly from women working outside
of the home (take Margaret Thatcher), but we need to lose the
stigma that working inside the home is the lamest, least-worthwhile
thing a 21st-century woman can do. (Imagine if Michelle
Obama had a real job!)
Egil| 3.3.13 @ 11:23AM
"Did women in the 1960s rebel against the housewife profession because it was really so awful, or because they wanted to show that they could?"
A very good question! In my 50 years of life I've encountered more than a few women who regret following the myth that women can "have it all." A recent example: one of my sisters cheated on her husband, refused his pleas to reconcile, listened to a feminist "therapist" who encouraged her to divorce and have a career, and now she absolutely HATES having to work full-time.
In my experience, I've seen clearly that feminist women are clearly not any happier than stay-at-home moms.
Albert Constantine Jr.| 3.3.13 @ 2:19PM
I'm not sure that people who spend their lives chasing happiness wind up any happier than those people who try to make good decisions and live up to the vows and commitments they make.
Bob K| 3.3.13 @ 3:43PM
Here is a flash, Ms. Mull!
If you want to be taken seriously when you write about subjects like this don't take your examples from television shows like "Mad Men." It's not a "reality" show and it never was meant to be/
Your grandmothers and great aunts grew up in the 60's. Talk to them! Historically speaking it wasn't that long ago.
fmm| 3.3.13 @ 3:59PM
Have read 2 articles by the poster and will not read anymore. AS needs to screen their contributors better.