My sainted Mother-in-law, God rest her sweet soul, once faced
this dilemma. She had a husband recently graduated from West Point
and a brother attending the Naval Academy at Annapolis. So at a
Roosevelt-era Army-Navy game, she sat on the Navy side and pulled
for Army. A charmer like Roberta Gabel could get away with stuff
like this.
Eighty years later, Jackie Harbaugh
faces a similar test in the upcoming HarBowl. I’m sure she’s
proud as she can be of both her boys, and one of them will emerge a
winner on Feb 3. But there could be delicate matters surrounding
the most watched case of sibling rivalry in the history of the
world.
Is Mom Harbaugh attending the game? If so, what side will she
sit on? When will she cheer, and when keep her counsel? Too much
demonstrativeness on her part at the wrong time could lead to the
Smothers-esque charge: “Mom always liked you best.”
I’m praying for a competitive, exciting, injury-free game. And
I’m putting in a word for Jackie Harbaugh on her very special day.
A mother’s job is never done, and it’s rarely easy.
RCV| 1.22.13 @ 9:50PM
Larry: my daughter went to Cornell, and my son is a student at Michigan. We were in New York this Thanksgiving and went to Madison Square Garden to see a hockey game -- the "Frozen Apple" -- between the two schools. My wife solved our parental loyalty dilemma by ordering a sweatshirt from each school, cutting them in halves, and sewing the disparate halves together. She wore her "Michnell" blue and red, and I wore the "Corigan" red and blue. We cheered each goal, no matter who scored it. (Cornell triumphed 5-1.). The sweatshirts were a hit with fans of both schools.
mike 3/505| 1.22.13 @ 10:49PM
POTUS traditionally sits on one side during the first half and the other side during the second, for the Army-Navy game. Beat Navy 2013!