A few responses to my
recent column on the Chick-fil-A business are worth sharing
with the rest of the class.
If the owner of Denny’s said he believed African Americans
were cursed as the son of Ham I would expect my mayor to say
something similar. The fact that the same is not expected just
shows that the gay activists are right about acceptance in our
society.
The president of Chick-fil-A didn’t say anything
other than that he believed marriage was between a man and a woman.
This happens to be a view codified in federal law as well as the
law in over 40 states. Only a minority of states that take a
contrary view have done so democratically, none have yet done so by
popular vote. This view of marriage is also held by anywhere from
40 percent to a majority of the American people, and by both major
party presidential candidates in 2008 (and by the sitting president
of the United States as recently as the beginning of May).
You may believe these laws and views to be antiquated or
wrongheaded. I personally believe the legal killing of unborn
children is unjust and wrongheaded, and could make abortion
analogies as heated as “cursed as the son of Ham” to practices and
beliefs that would be almost uniformly condemned. But I recognize
that I live in a country where large numbers of people of sound
mind and good will disagree. It might be nice to imagine
legislating such beliefs out of existence, but persuasion might be
a better tool. Chick-fil-A banners ought to keep it mind.
Gay marriage isn’t about tolerance. It’s about equal rights
and equal protection under the law.
Two points here: First, not all relationships can
be classified as relationships. Is defining the term or setting any
conditions for marriage therefore a denial of equal rights or equal
protection under the law?
Second, tolerance is a huge part of why gay marriage has
advanced politically. Even the arguments about equal rights
ultimately have persuaded people out of a sense of fairness and
tolerance.
Neither mayor ultimately did anything. Isn’t that
just free speech?
It’s true that it was just grandstanding by politicians. And
yes, they both have the right to express their disagreement with
Chick-fil-A’s president. But they both threatened to use government
power to block the restaurant before realizing they had no such
authority. Rahm Emanuel was voicing support for a Chicago alderman
who was going beyond voicing disagreement. The speaker of the New
York City Council isn’t just expressing disagreement.