Not long ago, a woman in California called me for advice. She is
divorced, with two children, and has a series of interlocking
financial problems. She lives in a lovely home in a stylish
inland enclave. It has an interest-only mortgage of about $2.2
million that requires a payment of $12,000 a month, very roughly.
It was last appraised at $2.7 million, but who knows if it’s now
worth anything remotely close to that price. The woman, whom I’ve
known since she was a teenager, has no job or other remunerative
employment. She has a former husband, an entrepreneur whose
business has suffered recently. He pays her $20,000 a month, of
which roughly half is alimony and half child support. The alimony
is scheduled to stop this summer.
Is Stein asking us to "feel sorry" for this woman? No:
What could I say? I did the best I could, but I had to tell her
that she was on very thin ice.
This is the closest that Stein, a gracious human being, will come
to saying, "Sweetheart, you're screwed, blued and tattooed." What
Stein is saying -- the moral of the story, as it were -- is that
even people we think of as "rich" can get themselves in over
their heads. Here is a woman living in a mansion (even in
California, $2 million buys a lot of house) and receiving nearly
a quarter-million a year in alimony, and yet she is on the verge
of bankruptcy.
Stein writes with a sort of Gestalt technique, allowing the
reader to draw his own conclusions. He is too much the gentleman
to say directly that this woman, his longtime friend, is an
irresponsible twit. Rather, he turns without comment and begins
relating his own father's words of wisdom about the importance of
such sturdy virtues as diligence, thrift and self-reliance --
virtues his soon-to-be-impoverished divorcee friend quite
obviously lacks. The big risk in the Gestalt technique of
essay-writing is that some people might miss your point, which
Yves Smith does spectacularly:
Stein is trying to give us a morality tale of sorts, but his
object lesson is so far removed from the most common
manifestations of the debt disease that it sheds no light on the
issue.
Smith is angry at Stein for using this rich woman as an example
of a problem of which she is, in fact, a very good example:
Anyone who lives above their means is at risk of disaster,
however great their means may be. Given that Stein's larger
(implied) point is that America's tremendous wealth hasn't
prevented America from suffering an economic disaster caused by
excessive debt, the woman he chooses as his example is an apt
choice. And given that Barack Obama and the Democrats now plan to
"fix" our problem with
another $800 billion or so in deficit spending, it seems that
Yves Smith is not the only one who has missed the moral of
Stein's story.
Yes. Good comeback; being that the real moral of any Ben Stein
column is for the reader to feel sorry for Ben Stein.
You neglected the other half of his column, which seems to answer
the self-indulgent book he once wrote about being a dad who
self-indulgently indulges every selfish whim of his kid. Now the
kid's 21, married, jobless, and self-indulgent! What a surprise!
Not to mention the "autobiography" he wrote before that which
confessed how he hung around twenty-something girls more than his
own wife. Perhaps this earlier self-indulgence explains his
sudden embrace of another form of American self-indulgence:
moralistic ranting and his pushing of creationism.
I'll never make as much money or own as much property as Ben
Stein yet I'm beginning to feel sorry for him myself.
Diamon| 1.25.09 @ 8:34PM
Ben Stein ceased to be a credible conservative voice when his Al
Frankin donation of $2,000 was exposed.
I don't read him, won't listen to him, and it's more than
apparent that living in California has impaired his principles.
But this is the latest RINO that has wandered into the true
conservatives' field of view.
I wish the Spectator would not even mention his name. I only wish
it was known how he could admire such a vulgar, intellectually
dishonest, and now another election thief.
RSM, Stein is not worthy of your mention of him regarding any
subject, let alone finance.
J David| 1.26.09 @ 8:49AM
Ben Stein is a typical big gov't liberal. He has the redeeming
value of being funny as a RINO mouth piece, and he is forgiven of
being a RINO by those who aren't because he is slightly less
liberal for admitting the blatantly obvious truth of "Intelligent
Design", and for occasionally espousing money policies that are
somewhat less liberal than say Chris Dodd or Barney Frank. He
won't be able to ever get the next step beyond intelligent
design, or big government liberalism, because he loves fame, and
Hollywood, and the pundit circuit.
J David| 1.26.09 @ 8:54AM
Diamon has a good point in that the most painful thing that we
can do to these cocktail conservative RINOs is shun them, in
every way, shape, manner, and form. Not even to hit their
websites to see what kind of backstabbing they're up to today...
When I see RINO on FOX I instantly turn the channel, and take my
ratings to another channel until the next segment comes on.
Is there anything more irresponsible than Stein's shilling for
the utterly disreputable Expelled, thereby taking money
from naive lower-class persons for telling them that hard-working
scientists are akin to the Gestapo?
Kristine| 1.25.09 @ 4:40PM
Yes. Good comeback; being that the real moral of any Ben Stein column is for the reader to feel sorry for Ben Stein.
You neglected the other half of his column, which seems to answer the self-indulgent book he once wrote about being a dad who self-indulgently indulges every selfish whim of his kid. Now the kid's 21, married, jobless, and self-indulgent! What a surprise!
Not to mention the "autobiography" he wrote before that which confessed how he hung around twenty-something girls more than his own wife. Perhaps this earlier self-indulgence explains his sudden embrace of another form of American self-indulgence: moralistic ranting and his pushing of creationism.
I'll never make as much money or own as much property as Ben Stein yet I'm beginning to feel sorry for him myself.
Diamon| 1.25.09 @ 8:34PM
Ben Stein ceased to be a credible conservative voice when his Al Frankin donation of $2,000 was exposed.
I don't read him, won't listen to him, and it's more than apparent that living in California has impaired his principles.
But this is the latest RINO that has wandered into the true conservatives' field of view.
I wish the Spectator would not even mention his name. I only wish it was known how he could admire such a vulgar, intellectually dishonest, and now another election thief.
RSM, Stein is not worthy of your mention of him regarding any subject, let alone finance.
J David| 1.26.09 @ 8:49AM
Ben Stein is a typical big gov't liberal. He has the redeeming value of being funny as a RINO mouth piece, and he is forgiven of being a RINO by those who aren't because he is slightly less liberal for admitting the blatantly obvious truth of "Intelligent Design", and for occasionally espousing money policies that are somewhat less liberal than say Chris Dodd or Barney Frank. He won't be able to ever get the next step beyond intelligent design, or big government liberalism, because he loves fame, and Hollywood, and the pundit circuit.
J David| 1.26.09 @ 8:54AM
Diamon has a good point in that the most painful thing that we can do to these cocktail conservative RINOs is shun them, in every way, shape, manner, and form. Not even to hit their websites to see what kind of backstabbing they're up to today... When I see RINO on FOX I instantly turn the channel, and take my ratings to another channel until the next segment comes on.
Glen Davidson| 1.26.09 @ 11:33AM
Is there anything more irresponsible than Stein's shilling for the utterly disreputable Expelled, thereby taking money from naive lower-class persons for telling them that hard-working scientists are akin to the Gestapo?
He's beyond disgrace.
Glen D
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