I have hesitated to write this, but common decency finally
compels me to speak up here: Sen. Craig deserves some sympathy, and
some perspective.
First, some disclaimers: Obviously, it appears as if the rumors
of his history (of doing the sort of thing that he is suspected of
doing) are probably true. And if he has been doing any sexual acts
in a public restroom, that's bad, very bad. As it is to have
cheated on his wife. And if he was actually trying to solicit such
activity, as accused, it's pretty gross, too. He probably ought to
resign, and at the very least he should announce that he is not
going to run for re-election. (On the other hand, it is hard to see
how what he actually did in the incident in question is a crime.
Touching feet? Putting a hand on the bottom of a partition -- but
without spoken or written solicitation? In the grand scheme of
things, not terribly criminal, although it seems as if he were
indeed trying to start something that would lead to the illegality
of severe public indecency.) None of what I am about to write is
meant to excuse his apparent intent, and what is likely his history
of the same.
But really, what this means is that this man needs help. Even
knowing that he was under serious scrutiny for such alleged
behavior, for him to do it (again) anyway shows a terrible, and
bizarre, compulsion. It shows a bad psychological problem, and
possibly a psychiatric one. Somebody who would risk his career for
such activities is crying out for help.
All that said, let's not forget this: This was a man who, in
public life, did a superb job serving his constituents for more
than a quarter century. He was a good legislator, a serious one and
a hard-working one, and a generally philosophically consistent one
at that. He was a gentleman, too: He was a solid conservative who
nevertheless tried hard, and successfully, to have good
relationships across the aisle with those Democrats who were decent
enough to reciprocate. He was a constructive force in the Senate --
and a patriot. Aside from what appears to have been a serious
private problem (okay, a public problem, in that the alleged crime
here is one of public indency -- but the apparent compulsion for
risky public behavior seems a personal sickness). He was apparently
a man who tried mightily to do the right thing and serve his
country well.
Compare the reaction to his alleged crime and the one that it
appears David Vitter (allegedly) participated in. Why does
prostitution (especially involving a married man) earn more of a
pass than gross-but consensual sex? And the hypocrisy is far
greater in Vitter's case: He based a large part of his career on
moral preening. Contra the Left, though, I fail to see how it is
hypocritical for Craig, though, to have voted against "gay
marriage" and special "gay rights." One can participate in
homosexual acts and yet still think, quite consistently, that it is
bad public policy to create special rights and protections for
homosexuals or to put the positive imprimatur of the state on the
"union" of two homosexuals.
To be clear, I think Craig should leave the Senate. He is a
moral reprobate, on several levels. But somebody needs to have
compassion on him, and not make him feel abandoned as a human
being. Yes, of course he should have been able to control his own
behavior, no matter what the "compulsion" was. But fergoshsakes,
don't overlook the man's genuine decency and service to nation in
the rush to condemn him. And please find him some counseling, so he
can somehow try to put his life back together and find some
redemption.