I experienced the eerie feeling I got from reading the conclusion of Orwell's 1984 when I read the following finish to the Grey's Anatomy gay slur controversy:
Washington also added that he wanted to seek out help within the
gay and lesbian community. "I can also no longer deny to myself
that there are issues I obviously need to examine within my own
soul, and I've asked for help. I know the power of words,
especially those that demean. I realize that by using one filled
with disrespect I have hurt more than T.R. and my colleagues. With
one word, I've hurt everyone who has struggled for the respect so
many of us take for granted. I welcome the chance to meet with
leaders of the gay and lesbian community to apologize in person and
to talk about what I can do to heal the wounds I've opened," he
said.
I don't endorse the use of gay slurs or any other kind, but we have really, really lost perspective in this country. Calling names is hardly as bad as it gets, folks.