Memorial Day Monday
ALEX AND I ARE AT OUR HOUSE IN MALIBU. You simply cannot imagine
how beautiful the weather is here today. Cloudless blue skies. No
humidity at all. Slight breeze. Temps in mid-70s. Birds of all
kinds, especially some kind of blue birds (maybe blue jays), flying
all around, singing perfectly.
Immense hawks with forked tails also cruise by all day long
looking for prey. Actually, we were supposed to be in D.C.
attending memorial services at Arlington. But gnarled McFate (a
Nabokov reference) stepped in. Two nights ago, I got a call from
someone very close to me, a woman I am fond of, to put it mildly.
She told me that her 24-year-old son, of whom I am also extremely
fond, was having a nervous breakdown. The poor kid has been having
one problem after another, so I ran right over.
He was standing in his undershorts (boxers, probably a gift from
my wife and me) covered in blue food dye. He had several bowls of
blue water on the counter in front of him. In the bowls, immersed
in the water, were various bits of takeout Japanese food.
To make a horrendously long story short, the young fellow
believed that there were microchips embedded in his rice, that some
of the fish skin from his sushi was attacking some other skin in a
bowl, and that persons unknown were attacking him with fishing line
and fishhooks. He also thought that I was audio recording him and
that my friend (his mom) was videotaping him.
It took until four in the morning to get him even a bit calmed
down. By then, my wife and I were so tired from helping the young
man and his family that we were in no shape at all to travel in the
morning. I am bitterly sorry about missing that super special
event.
At all events, here we are in Malibu. The young man is really a
smart, lovely person, but he is going through a horrible time. If
he took his meds on a regular schedule, he would be a lot better
off.
His mother and my wife and I thank God every single day for the
pharmaceutical companies that at least keep some small semblance of
a lid on this kid’s soul. Where would we be without those
scientists and their companies? The progress that has been made in
antipsychosis, anti-schizophrenia drugs is simply fantastic. These
are lifesaving creations of the human mind.
I do not believe this kid would be alive without these
prescriptions. But he will take them, and he will get better and
make a real contribution to society someday. Thanks to the
pharmaceutical companies, from the bottom of my heart. They make
life possible for so many millions of people every day.
HERE IN MALIBU, I slept late along with my Julie Good Girl, my
perfect German shorthaired pointer, and then I got up and prayed a
lot for that young man and for the hero soldiers, Marines, airmen,
sailors, Merchant Marine, war workers, OSS, CIA, FBI, Coast Guard,
police, and prison guards who keep us safe. What can we do or say
that is enough for these spectacular men and women? There will
never be enough roses to throw in their paths.
In a related vein, if I had my way about education, I would
require that The World at War, the marvelous 30-hour
series about World War II from the UK, be shown to every
grade-school boy and girl in this country starting right now. This
would be a much better country with more gratitude for the people
who keep us free and safe. What happened to teaching gratitude?
Back at Parkside Elementary, long ago and far away, on its green
and leafy campus in Silver Spring, Maryland, we were taught to love
and praise the USA endlessly. Many of us were the grandchildren of
immigrants. We had seen the miracle of America in our lives, our
families going from poverty to solid middle-class status in a
matter of decades. Every father of every boy and girl had been in
the war as a military man or a war worker. It showed. We really
loved this country.
The few kids who complained about America—usually children of
Party members—did so about racism and did so with affection. I just
cannot recall anyone who seriously doubted that we were the most
fortunate kids who ever lived to be growing up in America in the
’40s, ’50s, and ’60s. There simply was no ingratitude, just as
there were no overweight kids except maybe one or two.
This was a different America. In some ways, it was worse than
today, because there was explicit, legally sanctioned racism and
vile sexism, but in some ways it was a far more confident, happier
world. It was a club…the best club in the world, and we all
belonged.
If someone told us we would have a First Lady who had been given
every possible opportunity America had to offer and then had said
that she never felt proud to be an American until her husband was
named his party’s nominee for president, it would not have been
conceivable.
As I say, a different world. I can remember reading a book in
the mid-1950s about a Soviet takeover of the United States. The
first thing the Russians did was round up all of the CPUSA members
and shoot them. The Russians reasoned that if these people were
dissatisfied with the best country on earth, they would be really,
really dissatisfied with Red Amerika, and would make trouble. Why
not do the sensible thing and shoot them all right away?