“Here Mike, let me get the light,” I offered absentmindedly,
reaching for the switch. It wasn’t my smartest moment, and my
friend had a ready response.
“Is that what I’ve needed all these years?” he asked
sarcastically. “For someone to turn on the light?”
Mike Kosior was blind from birth. The same genetic disorder that
robbed him of his sight also made him profoundly hard of hearing.
Nobody would have begrudged him if he had stayed home and received
disability payments. Yet he went to work each day, reporting for
duty before anyone else.
We worked together in the IT department of a marketing agency.
Mike would navigate the streets of Boston with a red and white
cane. He was there early each morning, answering technical support
calls and making the entire floor smell like his beloved hazelnut
Dunkin’ Donuts coffee.
Mike used a program that would read his computer screen out loud
to him. Many mornings I would hear him reading the Boston
Globe, interspersed with his own commentary. “Give me a
break,” he would say, to no one in particular. “Yasser Arafat? Too
bad!” You had to be aware that if you sent him an email during a
conference call, his computer would read it aloud to the whole
group.
During that time period, Mike was one of the most reliable and
popular computer technicians at the company. People hard at work on
client deliverables can be a demanding lot, and they don’t have
much patience for software malfunctions. Mike was able to both help
them and put them at ease.
I once asked Mike why he didn’t use a seeing eye dog. He didn’t
miss a beat. “It’s hard enough to get a job when you’re blind,” he
replied. “Try bringing a [expletive] dog to the interview.”
Work was very important to Mike. His parents insisted that he
attend public schools with everyone else rather than be sent
somewhere that specialized in teaching disabled children. He is
believed to be the first blind student to attend his Tiverton,
Rhode Island high school. In 1996, he became the first blind person
to graduate from Bryant College in its 133-year history. Naturally,
his degree was in computer information systems.
It took Mike a year to find a job after graduation. Potential
employers were skeptical that a blind man could do computer repair
and support, though they didn’t always admit it. But he persevered.
He had been told before he would never amount to anything. A high
school teacher had suggested to him he wasn’t cut out for college.
He had proven people wrong before, and would do so again.
Mike rose up the ranks from being on the help desk to
specializing in network security. He would eventually apply these
skills in service to his country. Mike moved with his wife to
Virginia, where he would work at the Defense Intelligence Agency in
the Pentagon and the Marine Corps’ Network Operations Command
in Quantico. He liked supporting the military, but he would
complain about government bureaucracy and people who were paid to
do little work. He called them “turtle polishers.”
Ultimately, Mike went to work for the Veterans Administration.
He got up each morning at 4 a.m. and commuted over an hour by train
and subway to his office near the White House. He wouldn’t come
home until 6:30 at night. He didn’t complain about the long
hours.
Occasionally, reporters would find out about Mike. He told the
columnist Mark Patinkin that he chose this career path
because it was the closest he could come to serving in the military
himself. “I’d have thrown on that uniform in a second,”
Mike said. “I love my country. A lot of people don’t realize what
military folks do to sacrifice so we can be
free.”
Mike worked his way up to GS-13 in civil service,
earning a six-figure income. He made enough money that his wife
could stay at home with their adopted daughter. He hoped that his
little girl would learn from his example of hard work that anything
is possible.
Earlier this month, Mike suffered a seizure while having dinner
with his family. He died at the young age of 38. It seems a sad
ending to an inspiring story, but Mike wouldn’t want anyone to feel
sorry for him. There’s more work to be done, and now the rest of us
are just going to have to step up.
After accomplishing a particularly arduous task, Mike would
occasionally allow himself a moment of celebration. “Mr. Antle,” he
would say. “The blind kid did it!”
Yes, Mike. You did.
Joellen| 7.24.12 @ 7:08AM
GOD Bless this true American. If you know any deadbeats who refuse to work and insist on being fed by the Government (the taxpayer), send them this article. Just maybe it will shame them - which is exactly what we have lost in this culture.
Fast and Curious| 7.24.12 @ 8:04AM
Quite an inspiring story. Every time I go out in public I'm reminded about the majority of young people in this country, and it scares me. People like this man give me hope, as do our young soldiers (especially the USMC).
c. j. acworth| 7.24.12 @ 8:26AM
No no no, Mr. Antle, Mike didn't do it. He didn't build that career for himself through hard work and perseverence. Somebody had to make that cane for him, didn't they, and what about the teachers in his youth, and the roads and bridges he uses to get to work every day? Our Dear Leader has made all that clear just the other day, were't you listening?
Occam's Tool| 7.24.12 @ 11:07AM
The passing of a truly great man.
loulou| 7.24.12 @ 11:21AM
What an amazing man.
Zeppo| 7.24.12 @ 11:34AM
Thank you, Mr. Antle.
JD| 7.24.12 @ 12:12PM
I play rec-league softball with a man who lives on full-time disability due to supposed brain injuries suffered in a car accident. He's an accomplished pianist and a good athlete, and he keeps quite busy with a variety of sophisticated hobbies. Oh, and his wife makes over $150K/year. In all the time I've spent with him, I've never seen the slightest sign of any disability. But he's getting paid a "living wage" on the taxpayer dime for the rest of his life, without working.
He and "Mike" have little in common.
Cobalt| 7.24.12 @ 12:18PM
Mike was a good Man.
He was outstanding, and set a good example for how other people should try to live their lives.
Well done, Mike.
Skippy| 7.24.12 @ 5:46PM
At UNH in the early 1970's there was a guy on our floor that was stone blind.
Gary walked with a cane and asked no-one for assistance.
He was sweet, polite and studious. He never whined or complained.
Often I have wished I had his strength and character.
To Mike: Ave atque vale.
dragon | 7.26.12 @ 6:49AM
Thank You!
Ronsch| 7.26.12 @ 1:43PM
Reminds me of my mother...She was born "visually impaired" (pc for blind, you know) and when my father divorced her in 1976 and left us, she was left to raise 4 children, one being only 2 years old.
My mom went to college and earned her Bachelor degree in Psychology. i remember accompanying her to college classes at UWGB during the summer and listening, learning, and asking more questions than the college students did, especially in World History. I watched mom furiously using a stylus and braille pad to take notes, working her hands thin (this was 1977 after all, and no portable pcs or laptops) to get the information. Finally, a group on campus pitched in and bought her a tape recorder so she could record lessons and commit them to memory. She worked for the State of Indiana teaching other newly blinded or individuals who never lived on their own as visually impaired how to take care of themselves, read braille, make meals and function an unimpaired person. I learned much from my mom, including a hard work ethic, getting educated in a real career field, giving back because I wanted to, and a hundred little tricks to make life simpler over all.
Every time I hear anyone whine about not being able to do something, I trot out my mother as an example...