FRIDAY
Here I am, downtown, at the new Ritz Carlton Hotel near the
Staples Center.
I am at the annual meeting of the Beavers. Now, you may never
have heard of the Beavers, but that is your loss. The Beavers are
the biggest civil engineering construction firms in America. These
are rough, tough, smart men who build immense bridges, huge
tunnels, highways, subways.
When I walked into the VIP reception before the dinner, I felt
as if I were a pygmy in a land of giants. These were impressively
powerful men and you could just feel it in the room. I would not
want to tangle with any of them.
I spent a long time talking to John Shea and his son Peter Shea.
They are the owners, or some of the owners, of Shea Construction.
This amazing firm was founded by Peter Shea’s grandfather, who came
from Ireland to America. He started out doing plumbing for bars
that needed piping from beer kegs to taps. Within a few years, he
was one of the key builders of the Hoover Dam and the Bay Bridge in
San Francisco. The company were major builders of the Metro in D.C.
In the present moment, they are building a new subway line in New
York, under the streets of Manhattan.
Their crews use 8,000 pounds of dynamite every day
blasting rock under Gotham to build the tunnel for the citizens and
visitors. Every day, more than a thousand of their sandhogs go down
300 feet below the sidewalks of New York to build the tunnels. It’s
amazing, even if I say it over and over again.
There were other stories there like this one: very strong,
determined, smart grandfathers who started companies and
descendants who made the dream bigger and bigger.
The event went on late and by the time it ended, my head was
spinning. These are amazing guys. Just incredible. Women
construction people too. All strong and enviable. We men who live
by scribbling feel small by comparison.
WEDNESDAY
“Bad news on the doorstep,/ I couldn’t take one more
step….”
We are down in the desert. It should be a time of rest, but it
isn’t. Even though Win Ben Stein’s Money was canceled more
than a decade ago, some people think it’s still on air. A woman
whom my wife and I considered a close family friend is seeking to
play the game and use fantasies and fiction to Win Ben Stein’s
Money.
It’s a legal matter and it takes a lot of time to work on
getting through it. It came out of the clear blue sky, although I
guess you could also say it comes out of one of the bedrocks of
human nature…greed. It’s providing well-paid work for lawyers and
using up a lot of my peace of mind. I hope when it’s over, I can
get some rest. It might not be over for a long time, though. I have
to be prepared. But it does organize my day and gives me lots of
food for thought. It also brings back some of my training in law
that I got at Yale. Nowadays we have computers to help and the
Internet, but some of the old concepts like Laches and Voluntary
Estoppel still come to mind.
I worked on the matter this morning. Then, I had a good 12-step
meeting. Surrender always works. But that means surrender to God,
not to man.
I came home and had a small lunch of leftovers with my wifey,
who really is not feeling well. Hormel makes an incredibly good
meatloaf. It takes six minutes to microwave it and let it cool and
it’s good for days afterward. I cannot stop eating it. I put a thin
slice of butter on the leftover meat and heat it in the microwave
and it is magnificent. Good work, Hormel.
Then I went out to the driving range to hit golf balls. The
weather was perfect. But by an ill fate, the only other golfer out
there was making horrible coughing and choking sounds as if he were
trying to bring up phlegm. Disturbing. I could not concentrate. I
hit many poor shots.
Herb| 3.30.12 @ 8:58AM
"there is no self-esteem without work. You just cannot be happy if you are idle. It's that simple."
Hmm..... I worked until I was 62. My wife just retired. We're trying to do our income taxes and believe me, we're not idle. And this notion that you're nothing without your occupation to define your self worth? What has one's relationship with G-d got to do with that?
So, Ben's being hit up for money by poor relatives? He must have plenty of self worth.
ggoblue| 3.31.12 @ 9:31AM
asshole
Alan Brooks| 4.1.12 @ 1:47AM
"Beavers"?
I thought it was 'Girls Gone Wild'.
gearjammer| 3.30.12 @ 11:55AM
Are the Beavers insulted that the jerks in the white house don't think they can build a proper pipeline fron Canada ? Or, has big guv infrastruture spending bought them ? Hope you beat the thing the legal thing that is tormenting you. Is loser pays in place ? The evil party will never allow that.
Alan Brooks| 4.1.12 @ 1:51AM
BTW,
Nixon was a really good guy- which is why he should have stuck to law and not gone into politics; attorneys aren't half the crooks politicians are- you can steal twice as much in office than with a briefcase.
Nixon did well in prosecuting Hiss.
McCarthyism hurt many innocent, but it did remove spies and liars such as Hiss.
Occam's Tool| 3.30.12 @ 8:48PM
Dear Ben: Flaxseed oil and oatmeal are non-medication approaches to lowering elevated cholesterol. Might I recommend that you ask your wife's doctor these questions sometimes? I explain things to my patients; although, as a board certified psychiatrist and a former instructor of psychiatry at a medical school (Alabama), I do not have your vast lawyerly knowledge of psychiatric medications.
Perhaps it is because you are such an overbearing prick that you cannot communicate with your medical professionals.
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As for the lawsuit---boy, Loser Pays would weed out these illegitamate lawsuits, wouldn't they?
Occam's Tool| 3.30.12 @ 8:49PM
Sorry: "illegitimate."
George Z| 3.31.12 @ 1:36AM
Ben, you're awesome because you are pro-life.
ggoblue| 3.31.12 @ 9:35AM
those founding fathers certainly were considered to be 'rabble'. in fact washington, as an officer of the 'continentals', was indeed a 'rabble rouser'.
they proved themselves as men, and fired the shots heard round the world.
danshanteal| 3.31.12 @ 3:15PM
Keep it coming. I enjoy your comments.
Scott Turner| 5.13.12 @ 8:33PM
Maybe you should shoot clays. It's like playing golf with a shotgun. BTW: Thanks so much for the wonderful words for those who have served our country.