Actress Dixie Carter, age 70, died earlier this month, best
known as the tart tongued southern liberal on the
popular 1986-1993 sit-com Designing Women. Her
real-life politics were considerably different from her fictional
character’s. Reputedly, whenever the script demanded a liberal
tirade from Carter’s role as interior designer Julia Sugarbaker,
she expected the compensating opportunity to strut her admirable
singing voice. Her favorite cameo was her performance of “How
Great Thou Art” in an episode when one of the characters pondered
the ministry. It was the last performance that Carter’s mother
viewed before her death.
“She got to see her little girl sing this great Methodist
hymn for the whole country,” Carter later recalled
wistfully.
The wife of actor Hal Holbrook, Carter mixed easily with
the Hollywood polloi but retained her mostly conservative
southern and Christian roots. She restored and lived in her
Western Tennessee childhood home in McLemoresville. And she
retained a lifelong affiliation with Methodism. Her funeral, and
wedding to Holbrook, were at the McLemoresville United Methodist
Church. She once declared she “never saw any reason to change the
beliefs I was brought up with.” Her cheerful faith eventually
persuaded Holbrook to join her as a regular churchgoer during
their courtship and marriage.
“How come we’ve got to the point where Christians must
apologize for being who they are?” Carter once asked. “Why have
Christians allowed themselves to get into the position of being
the bad guys? That is a very sad turn of events, and we’d better
do something about it. Again, the extremists are the ones who get
the attention. They’re the ones people listen to, but they don’t
represent the vast majority of sensible, decent people who are
too well-mannered to scream their opinions in your face.”
Carter’s Christianity seems to have informed her mostly
traditionalist perspective and her classy, even keel. She once
laughed to the unsympathetic cast of The View that she
was “the only Republican in show business.” She gave some money
to Republican candidates and appeared at the 2000 Republican
Convention in Philadelphia. There she appeared on The
O’Reilly Factor with Pat Boone, another rare Hollywood
conservative and openly practicing Christian. Bill O’Reilly
pronounced her a “patriot” upon her death. Evidently she attended
Bush’s first inauguration, joining hands on the stage with
Marie Osmond and Nell Carter. ”Made you feel like an
American!” she remembered. “Yeah, I get real patriotic. I get a
lump in my throat.”
Her conservatism was not entirely consistent. She supported
Bill Clinton in 1992 and attended his inauguration, partly
because her producer, Linda Bloodworth-Thompson, was of course a
close Clinton buddy. In a somewhat unfortunate appearance on
Bill Maher’s now defunct Politically Incorrect, Carter
pronounced herself a “libertarian” and wondered about, without
actually advocating, legalizing drugs and prostitution.
Presumably she would have thought those issues through more
carefully in a more uplifting setting.
Upon Carter’s death, numerous homosexual blogs claimed her
as a supporter of their political cause. Evidently
Designing Women had many homosexual fans who admired its
vampy female characters. No doubt Carter appreciated all her
followers, but it’s not clear that she ever compromised her
Christian convictions. A Designing Women reunion panel
video advertised as an endorsement of same-sex unions shows the
other cast members prattling on about their support for
homosexual marriage. Carter demurely smiled and
withheld direct comment. In a 1998 interview, Carter
carefully declined to offer her endorsement, describing marriage
as a “sacrament” and linking it to procreation. “That’s hard
for me,” she said of same-sex marriage, “Because I’m very
old-fashioned, very old-timey,” and “very traditional.”
Reportedly, Carter avoided roles that were morally
compromising and shunned scripts relying on humor
“derived from private parts or going to the
bathroom.” Despite her discretion, “I’ve always been
treated well,” she insisted of her business. “More often, the
case has been that I’ve asked not to say a line because of the
offensive or crude nature of the piece.” But her
best known roles were on programs, like Designing Women,
Family Law, and Desperate Housewives, that were
hardly prudish.
Carter’s house in western Tennessee
was also where she was born, delivered by her
grandmother during the Depression. McLemoresville had 200 people
when she was born and not quite 300 when she died. In her final
years, she shared the house with her husband and her elderly
father, an affectionate patriarch and devout churchman who
sounds somewhat like Atticus Finch from To Kill
a Mockingbird. His 2007 obituary described him as a
“lifelong Methodist and staunch Republican.” Daddy Carter was
also a World War II veteran and successful businessman who was
likewise born in the family home place. Dixie Carter once
explained of her home: “Oh, there’d never be any question of
giving up that house. Because it’s not a palace, but ‘boy howdy,’
it’s home. And it very much fills up the well. It’s very
restoring to go back there.”
As a child, Carter memorized Scripture in that house. “It
was a given, a fact of our lives,” she once remembered of her
Methodist Christianity, noting that she did not first meet
non-religious people until she moved to New York as an adult. Her
experience there and in Hollywood never persuaded her to adapt or
abandon her faith, as she once told a Salvation Army publication:
“I never saw any reason to change the beliefs I was brought up
with, because nothing in the behavior of my parents or
grandparents or any of the other members of my family ever gave
me reason to doubt that what they had taught me was true.” She
avoided arguments with her non-believing colleagues. “I went to
church and everybody knew that. I never stopped saying that I was
a Christian. I believe that if you live a certain way, that bears
witness better than anything else.” When Holbrook, during their
courtship, asked her about weekly church going, Carter responded:
“It makes me happy. That’s all I can tell you, Hal. The truth is,
I feel better when I’m leaving the church than when I came in,
every single time, without fail.”
Besides promotional work for the Salvation Army, Carter
also lent a hand to her United Methodist denomination. In the
1990s, she joined fellow performer and Methodist Willie Nelson
for a denominational fundraiser in Nashville. In more recent
years, she sang Christmas carols at a Methodist assisted living
facility near her Tennessee home. “We’ve heard it all our lives,
but isn’t it beautiful,” a tearful Carter told her elderly
listeners as she shared the Nativity story. “And the angels said
there were tidings of great joy for the people with whom He is
well pleased,” she read from the Gospel of Luke. “I certainly
hope we’re among the people ‘with whom God is well
pleased!’”
At Carter’s funeral, the minister of McLemoresville United
Methodist Church celebrated that Carter’s faith had never
faltered. “She would have wanted to leave a smile on everyone’s
face,” husband Hal Holbrook told the minister. Photos show a
typical, tasteful small town southern funeral, mostly absent
signs of Hollywood glitz, though much off the cast of
Designing Women was present. Actress Delta Burke wept
copiously, supported by her husband Gerald
McRaney, better known as “Major Dad.” The church
chimes that rang throughout the funeral were donated by Carter,
who seems to have left her friends and fans smiling, as her
husband insisted she would.
Melvin| 4.29.10 @ 7:55AM
Miss Dixie, you'll be sorely missed.
rah14| 4.29.10 @ 8:44AM
I appreciate the sentiment of the article and the author's commendation of a great woman, but I don't think he should presume to know what Mrs. Holbrook's personal beliefs might have been outside of what she said on the record. He speaks of her "inconsistency" as if it were a bad thing. Isn't it admirable that she did not follow the party line blindly and chose to go with her conscience no matter what her primary political affiliation might dictate? In the interview where she talks about homosexual marriage (quoted here), she also admits that her own marriage was not traditional in the sense that she and Mr. Holbrook were past the age of having children, so that caused her to open her mind a bit. Also, one of her best friends in the world was a homosexual, so I doubt she would have been absolutely unwavering in her defense of "traditional" marriage. I believe that is honorable. She truly is a good example of a Christian woman, one who is strong in her faith but willing to hear an opposing viewpoint and give it consideration.
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1stcav| 4.29.10 @ 12:19PM
Ms. Carter couldn't have been born in a cabin during the depression if she was 70 years old. That would have her being born in 1939 and the depression was long over by then. I'm a strong conservative and am glad to see that she was also. It came as a suprise to me. As a conservative web site, don't fall into the trap that liberals fall into, that meaning that you have to make up facts to make the story sound better.
Gus Fish| 4.29.10 @ 12:49PM
Not long over at all. The Great Depression ended in 1942 when the U.S. entered WWII.
Nick| 4.29.10 @ 1:27PM
1stcav,
In addition to your error about the end of the Great Depression, Mr. Tooley didn't write that Dixie Carter was "born in a cabin."
Missy| 4.29.10 @ 3:49PM
The Great Depression was 'long over' by 1939?
You're kidding, right?
WWII got us out of the Depression--not the braindead Marxist policies of the Progressive, FDR.
Usually, when someone claims to be a 'strong conservative'--they're decidedly NOT!
GavInTucson| 5.4.10 @ 1:50AM
A conservative you might be, but you've got your facts all wrong. We started to pull out of the Great Depression in 1942 and were fully recovered by 1946. Also, who said she was born in a cabin???
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Dennis| 4.29.10 @ 1:40PM
I live in West TN and once worked at a window/door plant that made the doors for her remodeled home. I'll never forget seeing the order come through with her name on it. Wow! What a trip!
Jocon307| 4.29.10 @ 9:07PM
Dennis, it's comments like yours that make the internet so very cool.
RIP Dixie Carter, say hi to my mom-in-law, she loved you!
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Bill Hussein O'Stalin| 4.29.10 @ 4:49PM
I once lived in a log cabin in West Virgina. There was only a pump for water on the back porch, an outside John house, and a wood fed stove. That was in 1963. I don't think log cabins had anything to do with the depression. They were around before the depression and they are still around.
Sheila Ballard| 4.29.10 @ 11:28PM
I have always admired Dixie Carter. This article demonstrates all the reasons why. I look forward to meeting you when Christ calls me home.
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Jaxsolo| 5.3.10 @ 6:51PM
She was evidently, a very classy lady. Thanks for a great article.
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