By Christopher Orlet on 11.19.09 @ 6:07AM
Loud, drunken and risqué is the English way.
A certain notorious
photograph has been making the rounds in
the British press. The photo shows a clearly intoxicated group of
(doubtlessly) well-to-do young women, one of whom is frolicking
down the streets of Cardiff with her knickers round her ankles,
much to the delight of her girlfriends. The reaction of the
British public to that image, and countless others like it that
have been appearing in the press, has been mixed. Conservative
older Britons see the images as representative of their
precipitously declining civilization. To them, today's Britain is
as unrecognizable as a foreign country, one where all social
order has broken down. Younger, liberal Britons, meanwhile, shrug
and say, "So what?"
The phenomenon of what is in Britain called "ladette culture" and
here in the U.S. "raunch culture," is more striking perhaps in
the traditionally reserved Britain. If quiet desperation used to
be the English way, it is no longer. The former reserved British
character is today: "loud, drunken and risqué."
There are many reasons young, expensively educated (rather than
well-educated), middle-class women would want to
exhibit such behavior. First and foremost, today's gal wants to
be "one of the guys," the twenty-something equivalent of the
tomboy. If you can be one of the guys as well as one of the gals,
that's twice as good, isn't it?
Today that means going to strip clubs and climbing up on the
dance tables and playing the role of stripper for your friends
and co-workers. As one ladette put it in
Marie Claire, it's called
"keeping up with your male peers." Or what another called: "Women
having genuine freedom."
It is mind-boggling how quickly centuries old traditions, mores,
and manners fade away. Within one decade all of the old taboos
that regulated and instructed the behavior of young, middle-class
women have been swept away. In the late 1970s, when my older
sister was in school, the female students policed the behavior of
their fellow classmates, lest one bad girl give the entire school
a "bad reputation." "Ten years ago, it was unacceptable for women
to go out and get absolutely hammered," one ladette recently told
a Canadian magazine. No more. If the moral policing of my
sister's generation was extreme, we have today swung to the
opposite extreme. Following a naked lap dance by a male stripper,
another ladette waxed philosophically: "This is about equality.
Men go out and have a good time. Why can't it be the same for
women?"
I doubt if running drunkenly amok through the streets with one's
panties round one's ankles is the sort of equality Susan B.
Anthony had in mind when she began publishing The
Revolution, but let it go. Likewise one British poll
found that 78 percent of young women preferred their bachelorette
or hen parties to be "loud, drunken and risqué." It is not enough
to act the fool. Everyone -- whether he wants to or not -- must
be witness to it.
There is a very simple-minded logic going on here. Young men do
idiotic things, therefore in order to prove that I am no less
idiotic than they are I must do the same. Only they do not
consider their behavior idiotic. Certainly, the young lady
parading through the city streets with her panties round her
ankles and throwing up in the back alleys finds nothing wrong
with her behavior. She is just having a good time. Like the guys.
IF TODAY'S YOUNG people behave with any restraint and decency it
is less because they are afraid of damaging their social
reputation -- for damaging one's reputation can be a way to be
noticed and to increase one's popularity -- and more out of fear
of damaging one's job prospects. (Imagine the career prospects of
the young British lad
photographed urinating last month on a
WWI war memorial.) Damaged job prospects are a genuine cause for
concern. I don't know how many times I've heard human resources
types tell young people that they should watch their behavior
since cell phone photos may very well end up on one's
Facebook page, and potential employers
will look at your Facebook page. Budding attorneys
are constantly warned to safeguard their reputation, not because
a good reputation is in itself a good thing to have, but because
a bad reputation may harm your law career.
Society, as usual, can be counted on to send mixed messages.
Rather than condoning raunchy behavior, some women intellectuals
and educators praise it: "There are aspects of ladette behaviors
that should be celebrated," says educational researcher Carolyn
Jackson, author of
Lads and Ladettes in School,
"like women and girls' increased assertiveness and confidence.
They aren't afraid to challenge gender stereotypes." Every time I
begin to think conservatives are wrong to launch blanket attacks
on intellectuals, I read a statement like Ms. Jackson's and want
to say: pass the blankets.
Anytime you try to make over society in its entirety there is
bound to be a reaction. And while reactions are seldom beautiful
things, they are wholly predictable. Our
drink-besotted daughters parading half naked through the streets
are, in a strange way, a reaction to emasculating feminism and
political correctness. Fortunately, reactionary periods fade. And
when it does let us hope that young women will stop emulating
young men, or if they must, they emulate young men with some
class.
topics:
England, Feminism