Elsewhere, U.S.A.: How We Got From
the Company Man, Family Dinners, and the Affluent Society to the
Home Office, Blackberry Moms, and Economic
Anxiety
by Dalton Conley
(Pantheon, 221 pages, $24)
Dalton Conley is best known as the author of
Honky, a memoir about his bohemian, artist parents who
expressed their solidarity with the poor by raising their
children in the ghetto. That is, until its violence and poverty
became too real and the family fled to an artists’ commune. In
his latest work, Conley, now a professor of social science at
NYU, visits another world entirely in an attempt to trace modern
economic man’s journey from Mayberry, RFD to Elsewhere, USA, the
latter a depraved place of “all-consuming work” where nothing
tangible is made.
Conley isn’t writing about most Americans, but the important 25
percent — at least important to him: those 30-to-60-somethings
who live in urban areas, have college degrees, check their email
every thirty seconds, and who have two perfect, French-speaking,
piano-playing, ballet-dancing children.
Forget the inner journey. Forget Jung. Here is modern man in
search of a wi-fi connection. Conley suggests two forces have
combined to create today’s hi-tech hell: 24/7 technologies which
turn everywhere into an office at which you are always on-call,
and the growing income gap, which forces us to work even harder
to keep up. Finally, Conley unleashes an incongruous and
unexpected attack on the phenomenon of mothers in the workplace,
which he claims erodes family life and blurs what’s left of the
border between work and home.
A field trip to Google headquarters (the “Googleplex”) in
Mountain View, California, shows how the corporation has
perfected that blur. Google is perhaps the best example of a
company that has “integrated [employees’] professional, social,
and, at times, family lives — all while working crazy hours,”
noted BusinessWeek. In fact, Google employees have no
reason to go home; everything they could want is available
in-house, including free dinners, massages, and laundry service.
The 2009 workplace compares favorably to the 1950s housewife. Of
course even geeks have to sleep, so company towns with worker
housing are making a comeback, only the inhabitants won’t be coal
miners, but unmarried computer programmers.
It is Conley’s thesis that these affluent, overworked knowledge
workers are the most susceptible to the ill-effects of modernity.
Where once it was the American worker’s dream to earn enough so
that he could work less, today the opposite holds. In today’s
Through-the-Looking-Glass business world, leisure has become a
luxury only the poor can afford. A $250 an hour lawyer will
simply lose too much income by taking time off.
WEALTHY SUBURBANITES WHO work too much are not going to win many
sympathy votes. That aside, there seems to be a basic flaw in
Conley’s poor-little-rich-girl thesis. The blueprint commonly
runs something like this: the affluent work to bring about social
change. Social change often has tragic consequences for the poor
and uneducated, while the affluent use their wealth and
connections to minimize the ill-effects of change on their
cohort. One example of this is divorce law. Conley admits that
marriage has stabilized for the college educated, while the poor
and their children continue to suffer the consequences of wealthy
intellectuals’ demands for easy, no-blame divorce and more
lifestyle choices. The drug culture is another example. The
glorification of drugs by 1960s college kids and the 1970s
entertainment industry meant high times for affluent kids, but
for the poor it meant drug wars, prostitution, family dissolution
and jail.
It is likely the anxiety and alienation now affecting the
affluent will trickle down to the poor, with the usual
devastating consequences. The disappearing border between
work/home, the 24/7 workday and the loss of leisure will
doubtless hit the poor harder. After claiming women’s entry into
the workplace helped blur home/work boundaries, Conley notes
affluent parents spend more time with their kids than previous
generations. The same doesn’t apply for the less affluent.
After bemoaning the loss of Mayberry and the ill-effects of too
many moms in the workplace, Conley must have felt the need to
re-establish his liberal bona fides by decrying the income gap,
which is really an attack on the idea of meritocracy. It’s here
where Conley is least interesting, unless one longs to hear the
usual complaints about how smart people tend to marry smart
people and are thus open to more opportunities.
Conley mourns not only the loss of his grandparents’ traditional
way of life (front porch swings, card games with the neighbors,
and retirement at 55), but he also misses his hippie parents’
navel gazing and spiritual journeys to find one’s unique path.
Mind you, he doesn’t miss them enough to change his frenetic, New
York City lifestyle. Just enough to complain about their loss for
200 pages.
As a corrective to this overdose of tales of upward striving, I
recommend Conley’s far more entertaining Honky. This
story of voluntary downward mobility features characters equally
absurd, but as an example of liberalism taken to its extreme then
quickly abandoned, it’s a fine cautionary tale.
iowavette| 3.18.09 @ 5:29PM
I grew up in a California Mayberry with a "Leave t to Beaver" upbringing but escaped the downward spiral of that state to a flyover Mayberry about 14 years ago. In all that time no one in our circle retired at 55. Most people wanted and expected to work until 65. The first company at which I worked had many employees in their 70s. Ferry captains in their 80s and their not-much-younger crews, all wearing bib overalls - this is San Francisco mind you - used to drive over to bully me in person. My father still contracts out all over the country and he turned 80 in February. Myself, on the other hand, 55 would be terrific but with this administration no chickens will be counted for some time to come.
It needs to be said that someone who never actually lived that life, doesn't actually understand what we really lost.
Alan Brooks| 3.18.09 @ 7:36PM
not just liberalism, but libertarianism and neoliberalism as well. do as thou wilt is not that much different from do your own thing.
actually, it was the other way around, Americans decided they wanted (starting in the late '50s) to do their own thing and they adopted 'philosophies' -- rationalizations-- to fit the order.
or rather, disorder.
the immorality in America bubbled up to the surface and no shortage of panderers were there to cover the market niches. so, not to mix too many metaphors, we were hoisted by our own petards
PolishKnight| 3.19.09 @ 3:49PM
Interloper, your claim that, and I quote, "the poorest Americans are single women with children and dead end jobs" reminds me of the punchline to a joke: "World to end tomorrow! Women disproportionately affected!"
Didja ever hear of the homeless and unemployed? Doncha think they might be more poor than a single mother in a "dead end" job?
I agree that wage deflation, among other factors, make the cost of living higher than in times past but much of that is due to higher cost of two parent working households. The apartment building my wife and I lived in had a parking problem and the manager told us: "It was built at a time when working class families only had one car." Doesn't THAT say something!
It's not easy, but plenty of families can and do scrimp by on a single income by cooking more meals at home, not having to pay for outside childcare, doing more chores (mowing the grass rather than paying a gardener), etc and most importantly, they qualify for lower tax brackets and scholarships for their kids. I know men who told their wives NOT to go to work precisely so they could qualify for the latter!
Irish Troubadour| 3.22.09 @ 5:00PM
Look at the percentage of income going to government for the average family in the 1950's vs now and you will see why women have to work.
Trackback| 2.28.10 @ 4:30PM
Asian Women Info, on Asian Women Info, links to this page. Here’s an excerpt: