By Quin Hillyer on 10.3.07 @ 12:07AM
Many athletes earn respect the right way.
Politics can wait this week.
Let's escape to a more enlightening topic: Sports.
These past few months have been full of stories utterly
embarrassing to the sports world -- Michael Vick and dog fighting,
Barry Bonds and steroids, O.J. Simpson and armed robbery, and on
and on and on -- so much so that it has been easy to forget why and
how the world of sports can be ennobling. But one of the great
things about sports is that they always have provided plenty of
examples, of high achievement and high character, from
which any good parent would want their children to learn.
Such stories are again creeping into the sports pages again, and
Sunday saw two of them.
In football, there was Brett Favre, a consummate professional
and team player, breaking the all-time record for touchdown passes
thrown (while adding to his Cal Ripken-like record for consecutive
games played in). Not only that, but at age 37 (he turns 38 one
week from today), he's is again playing like a superstar, leading
his team to a 4-0 start this season. Yet after record-breaking
performance, his words were humble, even deferential to Dan Marino
and other quarterbacks whose records he is erasing. Good stuff.
In golf, the U.S. team at the Presidents Cup trounced the more
highly rated International squad. All weekend long, again and
again, the stories were repeated about how much credit today's
American players -- Tiger Woods, Phil Mickelson, and the rest --
gave to their captain, the incomparable Jack Nicklaus, all around
good guy and sportsman extraordinaire. Nicklaus got the proceedings
off on the right foot on the event's first day when, with his team
already having won the first five matches and an International duo
facing a four-foot putt on the 18th hole just to tie the day's
final match, Nicklaus suggested to Mickelson that he should concede
the putt in the spirit of sportsmanship.
In golf, character still counts.
With those examples in mind, herewith is a relatively random
list of top athletes whose character any child would do well to
emulate. (None of this is to say that these people were saints --
few people are -- but that they are people who strongly tip the
character scales on the side of admirability.)
Nicklaus: The Golden Bear, the greatest
professional golfer of the 20th century, spent an entire career
trying to do the right thing. When he won, he sincerely credited
his opponents for putting up good fights. When he lost, he smiled
and praised his opponents for beating him. Off the course, he is
famously devoted to his family, and he and wife Barbara are
renowned for their charitable endeavors. 'Nuff said.
Willie Mays: Not only was he arguably the most
complete player, and the most mesmerizing, that baseball has ever
known, but he consistently did the right thing when the chips were
down. As a young superstar, he used to hang out with the children
in his neighborhood, playing stickball with them. In a famous brawl
precipitated by his teammate Juan Marichal hitting opposing catcher
Johnny Roseboro over the head with a bat, Mays ignored the fray in
order to rush to opponent Roseboro's side, cradle his head, and use
his shirt to try to stop the bleeding. And that would be far from
the only time that Mays played peacemaker, most famously -- in his
final season -- walking from the dugout to left field to ask his
hometown fans to stop throwing objects at opposing star Pete Rose
after Rose had a fight with Mays' teammate Bud Harrelson.
Archie Manning: During a decade of taking
frightful physical abuse while trying to lead the usually hapless
New Orleans Saints to some semblance of respectability, Manning
never complained about the lack of talent around him, never
bemoaned his fate of being a superstar condemned to having little
chance to shine. Meanwhile, his civic and charitable endeavors in
New Orleans continue to be legendary, and his approachability, to
any ordinary Joe on the street, has always been second to none.
Peyton Manning: A true chip off the old block.
Not only is Peyton easily on pace to break whatever records Brett
Favre leaves behind, but he takes after his father in classiness
and civic-mindedness. And on his own initiative, he and little
brother (and fellow NFL quarterback) Eli chartered a plane and
lined up relief supplies to fly into his native Louisiana right
after Hurricane Katrina, delivering diapers and food and water and all
sorts of necessities just five days after the storm -- even as the
Federal Emergency Management Agency itself still seemed to be
trying to locate New Orleans on a map.
Cal Ripken: Famous for his untouchable streak
of playing in 2,632 consecutive games while putting up sterling
statistics and doing everything "the Oriole Way" (meaning the right
way), Ripken just as famously continues to put his heart and soul
into working with young people, and his money into charitable
causes such as research into treatment for Lou Gehrig's
Disease.
Dikembe Mutombo: The longtime star NBA center,
a native of Zaire, is a remarkable figure. He reportedly speaks
eight languages; natural father of two children, he (and his wife
Rose) also has raised four adoptive children; he is founder of an
impressive foundation to improve living conditions in his native
land; and he is founder and chief financial donor for a $29
million, 300-bed hospital near his hometown, the Congolese capital
of Kinshasa.
Deuce McAllister: Like his fellow Ole Miss
alumnus Archie Manning, McAllister went on to star for the Saints
and to become an integral part of the New Orleans
community, while continuing to be a huge financial donor to his
alma mater as well. A class act in the locker room and on the
field, McAllister was ubiquitous in New Orleans in the months after
Katrina, and was one of the few Saints who outspokenly insisted
that the team should return to the Crescent City in the face of all
the devastation. (Forgive the heavy emphasis on New Orleans
figures: But, obviously, the examples are so fresh in the mind, for
such good reason.)
Bobby Jones: Jack Nicklaus idolized Jones --
the winner of 13 major championships in a span of just 20 attempts
-- and tried to emulate Jones's legendary sportsmanship. The best
story about Jones is summed up nicely in Wikipedia:
In the beginning of his amateur career, he was in the
final playoff of the 1925 U.S. Open at the Worchester Country Club.
During the match, his ball ended up in the rough just off the
fairway, and as he was setting up to play his shot his iron caused
a slight movement of the ball. He immediately got angry with
himself, turned to the marshals, and called a penalty on himself.
The marshals discussed among themselves and questioned some of the
gallery if anyone had seen Jones' ball move. Their decision was
that neither they nor anyone else had witnessed any incident, so
the decision was left to Jones. Bobby Jones called the two-stroke
penalty on himself, not knowing that he would lose the tournament
by one stroke. When he was praised for his gesture, Jones replied,
"You may as well praise a man for not robbing a bank."
The examples of great athletes of admirable character are almost
endless. Other favorites might include tennis players Arthur Ashe
and the latter-day Andre Agassi, golfer Ben Crenshaw, basketball
player David Robinson, football players Bart Starr and Steve Young,
baseball player Dale Murphy, basketball player A.C. Green, golfer
Chi Chi Rodriguez, speed skater Bonnie Blair, decathletes Rafer
Johnson and Bob Mathias, and golfer Arnold Palmer.
It is trite but true that athletics can both reveal character
and build it. Perseverance. Teamwork. Overcoming adversity.
Confidence. Tactical and strategic thinking (at least in some
sports). Humility of the right sort. Hard work. And, of course,
sportsmanship.
So the next time some thug who is famous for his on-field
exploits gets arrested, fights with fans, or otherwise makes a
nuisance of himself, remember that there's another and far better
side of the story.
And when the Golden Bear or Ironman Cal talk about doing what's
right "for the good of the game," well...find a child, and make him
listen.
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