By G. Tracy Mehan, III on 6.13.07 @ 12:08AM
A bishop confronts pornography's corrosive influence.
Upon checking into a hotel -- a Marriott, say -- I often wonder
if the owners of the establishment patronize the same kind of
"adult" movies in their family homes which they routinely offer to
the anonymous traveler.
I still find it incongruous that there, in a fine and
well-appointed room, usually elegant and refined accommodations,
one could, with just a few clicks of the television wand, access a
running sewer of pornography. Thus, the hotel proprietor provides
what was once commonly referred to as "a near occasion of sin" to
his guest.
Such is the world in which we live. Protected by our courts,
financed by ever-willing capital, enabled by digital technology,
and sanctioned by our cultural elites (except for a few feminists),
pornography has become as American as apple pie.
Who among us dares to object? As it turns out, an unassuming
man, Bishop Paul S. Loverde of the Catholic Diocese of Arlington,
Virginia, has written a pastoral letter on the subject,
Bought With a Price: Pornography and the Attack on the Living
Temple of God. The title is from St. Paul: "You were bought
with a price. So glorify God in your body." (I Cor. 6:19-20)
It is an impassioned, eloquent, and courageous statement in
defense of our common humanity and the dangers posed by the
"plague" of pornography which has engulfed our culture. Says the
Bishop:
This plague stalks the souls of men, women, and
children, ravages the bonds of marriage and victimizes the most
innocent among us. It obscures and destroys people's ability to see
one another as unique and beautiful expressions of God's creation,
instead darkening their vision, causing them to view others as
objects to be used and manipulated. It has been excused as an
outlet for free expression, supported as a business venture, and
condoned as just another form of entertainment. It is not widely
recognized as a threat to life and happiness. It is not often
treated as a destructive addiction. It changes the way men and
women treat one another in sometimes dramatic often subtle ways.
And it is not going away.
The bishop is moved by the testimony of the priests of his diocese
who confront the realities of pornography in the confessional and
the testimony of counselors and teachers who treat this affliction
in social service agencies, schools, and youth ministries. He is
also addressing the concerns of parents and the many religious
leaders with whom he works in the Religious Alliance Against
Pornography, an interfaith coalition.
Bought With a Price, a very substantive document,
examines the current threat of pornography, confronts the numerous
rationalizations offered as "cover" for pornographers, and provides
specific counsel or guidance "to all Christians, young people,
couples, and priests" on how to free themselves from "slavery" to
pornography and seek God's forgiveness. While grounded in Catholic
theology, its arguments are universal and appeal to anyone who
values a well-ordered soul and commonwealth.
The pastoral letter concludes with a wonderful meditation on the
gift of sight, conceived of literally and metaphorically, and its
final end in seeing the vision of God Himself.
From Bishop Loverde's perspective, a perspective once common
throughout Western culture but now almost totally obscured,
pornography distorts the truth about human sexuality by reducing
sex to a demeaning source of entertainment and profit. It leads to
a host of other sexual transgressions.
Moreover, pornography offends against justice by doing injury to
all its participants including actors, vendors, and the public.
"Everyone involved in the production, distribution, sale, and use
of pornography cooperates and, to some degree, makes possible this
debasement of others," argues the Bishop. "Indeed, pornography has
become a system and an industry of mutual degradation." Despite an
ample supply of willing participants, those who produce, sell, and
use pornography cannot escape culpability.
Bishop Loverde does not hesitate to characterize pornography as
"gravely sinful" and, if engaged in with full knowledge and
consent, a "mortal sin." Many churchmen have forgotten how to
spell, much less say, these words; but Loverde stands up to the
plate and communicates clearly and forthrightly to his flock and to
all men and women of good will. He describes with precision the
reasons for his strong position.
First, pornography damages the family, "the basic cell of
society and the Church," because it tears at the marital bond. It
immerses users of pornography in a fantasy world and thus turns a
man's attention and affection away from his wife through the
creation of "unrealistic and often immoral expectations" for a
couple's intimate life. Thus, he approaches his wife "only as a
means to his own gratification..."
Pornography also produces a consumerist and licentious view of
sexuality, especially of women. Again, as a theological matter, it
destroys our perception of reality and "the true vision of God and
the beauty of His creation..."
The Bishop of Arlington does not view this as a strictly private
matter at all. Given pornography's deleterious impact on women,
families, and the character of the nation's citizenry, he does not
hesitate to instruct political leaders on their duty:
Public officials have a responsibility to uphold and
ennoble the standards of the communities which they serve.
Protecting a billion dollar criminal enterprise which destroys the
lives of both those depicted in pornography and those intended as
audience through the excuse of protecting free speech is not
service, but complicity.
Indeed, Bishop Loverde maintains that "Free citizens have the right
and the responsibility to form a culture that supports the life and
the dignity and nobility of every person." They should demand laws
which place "reasonable restrictions" on the depiction of the human
body and human intimacy.
In counseling prayer and repentance, as well as prudent steps to
avoid temptation, the Bishop believes that every Christian must
"live in conformity with the truth of Jesus Christ and to stand
apart from those aspects of culture which are contrary to this
truth."
Culture is formed by the choices of free people. It is
important that we choose morally uplifting and life-affirming
pursuits that contribute to the common good and the flourishing of
all persons. Within one's capabilities, each person should make
every effort to contribute healthy and chaste entertainments that
can be shared by all. In the fields of art, literature and music,
we must never compromise our own Christian dignity to suit the
expectations of a decadent culture.
Displaying uncommon moral realism, Bishop Loverde observes that
pornography "is largely, although certainly not exclusively,
associated with males." With love and forgiveness, wives must,
therefore, be "stern in calling the spouse to return to his true
manly vocation of marriage." This same realism moves the Bishop to
insist on strict and clear controls on children's use of the
Internet. He also offers strong direction to his priests to seek
constant spiritual guidance and support "lest we find ourselves
being overwhelmed by the very elements we wish to banish."
Bishop Loverde's motto on his coat of arms is ENCOURAGE AND TEACH WITH PATIENCE (2
Tim. 4:2). Bought With a Price is evidence that this
shepherd very much practices what he preaches.
Mr. Marriott, call your office.
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