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Boorish Pride

12.4.06 @ 12:01AM

BUYER'S REMORSE
Re: James Bowman's Proud to Be a Boor and R. Emmett Tyrrell, Jr.'s The Gentleman From Virginia:

I used considerably stronger language than "cad," "boor," or "jerk" in describing Webb and his conduct when I viewed the news report on TV. Let's just say that my anatomical references, spoken at a decibel level that made my dogs cower, certainly fell outside the pale of the speech my Southern mama would endorse. If Webb was attempting to avoid the President as he declares, the surest way to do it was not to go to the White House where the man lives! Since he chose to show up, common decency requires that he behave in a manner something better than a gutter snipe. Surely, it was an innocuous inquiry from the President, actually a very kind one from a man whose courtesy has surely been tested a great deal more than Webb's. And I wonder if there will be any Secret Service investigation of Fightin' Jim's assertion that he was ready to "slug" the President, as has been reported?

I suspect Virginia voters are suffering from some serious buyer's remorse about now. George Allen, whatever his flaws (and I think the bulk were media creations), is probably looking really good about right now. In the meantime, Webb, Kerry, Charles Rangel, and the contemptible John Murtha are probably the best advertisements the Republicans have going for themselves right now. While as a partisan I am not particularly unhappy, as an American I cringe. Is a politician of Webb's ilk what we have descended to? Six years will be a long time to endure his antics. Granted, the Republic will survive, surely ... but I am not sure about my blood pressure.
-- Warren Mowry

First it was George Will, with his schoolmarmish attack on Jim Webb's encounter with President Bush and excruciating deconstruction of Webb's use of two words ("literally" and "infinitely") in his Wall Street Journal article. Then it was R. Emmett Tyrrell, with his breathless recounting of a meal in a "classy eatery" with Webb circa 1983. Now we have Mr. Bowman weighing in and attacking Webb for making a "public fuss about his military record" and using it to "intimidate others", claiming that Mr. Webb attacked Mr. Allen for "cowardice."

Mr. Bowman writes about honor. Tell me, Mr. Bowman, is it honorable, when recounting a story of someone's alleged boorishness, to leave out a critical piece of information about the encounter in order to enhance the allegation? When President Bush tracked down Webb, who was avoiding him, and asked "how's your boy?" Mr. Webb is reported to have replied "I'd like them home, Mr. President," to which Bush replied "I didn't ask you that. I asked how's your boy," to which Mr. Webb replied "that's between me and my boy, Mr. President", and walked away. In his column Mr. Will left out the churlish "I didn't ask you that" and claimed that Mr. Bush had politely inquired twice about the "boy" and was rebuffed. What element of honor requires that Mr. Webb discuss a family member with the President? What element of honor allows a host to demand that a guest answer a personal question when the guest does not wish to do so? In what way was Mr. Bush being "caring" when he persisted in asking an unwelcome personal question? And where was Mr. Will's unctuous concern when Vice President Cheney responded to a Democratic senator's offer of a handshake with "Go f**k yourself"?

Then we have Mr. Tyrrell with his breathless account of a dinner with Webb some twenty-four years ago. He describes it as "gruesome," prattles on about how he kept trying to "reassure" Webb that dinner was on him, and that Webb still wouldn't warm up to him in spite of his boundless charm. Well it couldn't be that Webb simply found him a bore and didn't enjoy being at dinner with him, could it? How offensive and patronizing to say that Webb, a bestselling author and former Navy Secretary, was uncommunicative because he was "fearful" of paying for dinner at Tyrrell's "classy eatery."

Last we have Mr. Bowman himself, who talks about manners but does not see how profoundly Bush trespassed upon them by insisting that Webb answer a personal question. And honor? Honor does not require obsequiousness or that one forfeit ones right to privacy. Honor demands only that when asserting oneself one does not yell, act petulant, dramatize, or demean. Webb's first response to Bush was an attempt to deflect the personal question with a general reply, spoken quietly and with the honorific. When Bush rudely persisted in demanding an answer, Webb replied firmly, but not offensively, and with the honorific. If you wish to talk about honor, Mr. Bowman, tell us how honorable it was for Mr. Bush twice to attempt to discuss Webb's son with him, knowing that Webb holds him responsible for the war, knowing that Webb's son is in a combat zone, and probably fully aware that Webb's son had recently fought in a battle in which three of his platoon members were killed.

During the campaign Webb rarely spoke of his son, and then only to say it was his son who asked him to wear his combat boots. Webb was the despair of his campaign managers who wanted to focus on his military service. Of his nine commercials only one, the Gipper commercial, speaks much at all of his military service, and then only to illustrate his character. Mr. Bowman accuses Webb of attacking Allen for "cowardice." He did no such thing. Allen, taking excerpts from Webb's fine (according to Mr. Tyrrell) historical novels, attacked Mr. Webb's character and imputed perversion to him. This caused Webb to lash out that he was fighting in a war when Allen was playing around on a dude ranch. It was one of the rare times Webb talked about his military service and about Mr. Allen's lack thereof. Even Mr. Will thought Allen was going too far.

All these three articles did was illustrate the enormous divide between elitists like Bowman, Will, and Tyrrell, and the rest of the country.
-- Carla F. Ward
Arlington, Virginia

Congratulations to Mr. Bowman for his hypocritical rant about Senator Webb's courage to express the sentiments of most Americans about the war in Iraq to Mr. Bush's face, something that no Republican sycophants have had the gumption to do. Bowman's pretensions are hypocritical because he is of the same crowd of conservative pundits who cheered Dick Cheney's "straight talking" after his vulgar insult to Senator Leahy on the floor of the Senate last summer. The extent that Mr. Bowman seeks to stand as the guardian of civility in politics is laughable. It is well know by most mainstream voters, like myself, that it is the vitriolic hate and distortion that streams constantly from the Limbaughs and Savages of the right that is the true source of the decline of civility in our national discourse. I suggest Mr. Bowman get off his high horse and smell around his own side of the aisle as there is plenty there that stinks.
-- Paul Griffin
U.S. Citizen

I would call it "piling on": the esteemed editor of this publication, one of its noted contributors, along with the additional musings of a nationally known columnist, have all decided that the recent victor in the Virginia senatorial race, Jim Webb, is, among other things, a cad, a jerk, not a (Southern) gentleman, inclined toward personal violence and intimidation, and, most serious of all, a modern day Benedict Arnold. Fancy that! One wonders what's left: serial murderer?

Let me clarify my position from the outset: I have neither a personal loyalty to senator-elect Webb, nor did I cast my ballot in his behalf on Election Day, but the Tyrrell/Bowman/Will jeremiad is just plain silly.

RET's account of his dining experience with Webb, albeit humorous, appears to be a major factor in his evaluation of the senator to be. But how many who question Webb's ability to handle properly his fork and knife (he is, after all, a graduate of the Naval Academy), or his excessive pugnacity, have ever met the man? Allow me to raise my hand.

While I served as press attache at the U.S. Embassy in Norway during the mid-80s, Webb, the then Assistant Secretary for Reserve and Manpower, visited. At that time, the U.S. and British Marines, along with other NATO forces, held joint military exercises in Norway above the Arctic Circle, for there was a threat to "the northern flank" of NATO due to the presence of Soviet submarine bases in the Kola Peninsula. I was assigned the serve as Webb's embassy "control," mainly, I might add, due to the fact that I had read his three (at the time) published novels.

During the luncheon held in the ambassador's residence, Webb spoke of the Soviet naval threat with precision and knowledge; his responses to all questions were carefully thought out and measured; in short he was in his element. If memory serves, he did not drool or talk with his mouth full of food either. But what followed I retain, twenty years after, as an indelibly etched memory: I had the opportunity to spend the afternoon with him, and Webb, always a gentleman, allowed your scribe to question him, among other things, about his article, "Why Women Can't Fight," the plight of the military academies, as well as the state of the Cold War. He was nothing short of impressive, and quite comfortable in his own skin.

Letter to the Editor

topics:
Harry Reid, Law, Military, Iraq, NATO