By Ben Stein on 10.18.06 @ 12:09AM
Our country is absolutely drenched in juvenile sex.
Obviously, it's not easy to have a lot of sympathy for Mark
Foley. He did some extremely questionable things, and he's being
heartily punished for it, with more to come, most likely.
But he has raised an interesting issue long overdue for national
discussion. The media and the pundits are acting as if something
brand new happened when a grown up discovered the sexuality of
teenagers. They're acting as if teenagers are innocent little
children who never heard of sex until they got e-mails from a
Member of Congress.
The truth is just the opposite. This is a nation that is
absolutely drenched in juvenile sex. I am not sure exactly when it
happened, but it sure was going on when I was a teenager and that
was a long time ago in the days of James Dean. The problem is
vastly more prevalent now.
Movies in large part are about teenage sex. Whole TV networks --
I am not going to mention any names -- are largely about teenagers
and sex. Music, if you can call it music, is very, very largely
about teenagers and sex, and teenagers listen to it incessantly. (I
am the father of a teenager, and I promise you, it's true.)
Look at fashions for young girls. They are getting dressed like
Parisian streetwalkers from the 1950s. Little girls are getting
dressed by the fashion industry as if they were little hookers.
Billboards on Sunset Boulevard, very near my home, show young
boys in extremely revealing outfits. Much of the whole young
people's fashion and magazine industry is about selling kids on the
idea that their sexuality is all that matters about them,
Then there's the Internet. Multi-billion dollar companies are
bidding for websites that are very largely about teens advertising
their sexual availability and allure. This is an immense business,
and rapidly getting bigger. Can anyone say MySpace?
Obviously, this is not to excuse Mark Foley, who clearly
breached his trust, or to excuse the House GOP leadership, which
clearly messed up badly on Capitol Hill.
But this is a nation endlessly selling teenagers -- sometimes
younger than teenagers -- as sex objects. This is how teenagers are
merchandised -- and watch the cheerleaders at any high school
football game for more proof. It should not surprise us if, with
all of that selling, there are buyers, both gay and straight for
all of this selling.
If Mr. Foley's disgrace brings about some kind of national
debate about whether it's legitimate or ethical for commerce and
culture to be so largely about merchandising sex to young people
and merchandising young people as sexually alluring, it might have
served some useful purpose. As it stands, the culture is selling an
entire nation on pedophilia and sexualizing children at an
explosively early age. It's long past time something was done to
discuss whether this is where we want to go as a nation and a
people.
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