By Ben Stein on 10.6.06 @ 12:09AM
A country with its priorities badly out of whack -- this and a few other post-Yom Kippur reflections.
Let's all agree that Rep. Mark Foley did some very bad things by
sending sexually suggestive and explicit e-mails to young male
pages. Let's all agree that the House GOP leadership should have
kept a much closer eye on Rep. Foley, an apparent pedophile or
something that looks a lot like a pedophile to me.
May I make a few additional observations?
Hasn't anyone noticed a certain pervasive sexualizing of
children in America today and for the past decades? Children in
sexual situations in movies, on TV, in music, in advertisements,
especially for clothing? Hasn't anyone noticed that sexualizing
young girls (and to a lesser extent boys) is largely what modern
Hollywood is about? Is it maybe time to ask if this is a good
thing? Is it good to teach young people that they are primarily
valued for their sexual allure and performance and availability?
Maybe some good can come of the Foley scandal if we start to ask
ourselves if we really want to teach our young people -- or permit
them to teach themselves -- that their sex attributes are the
bottom line of what counts about them? If you spend much time
watching certain TV channels that appeal to young people, you get
to suspect that this a pedophile nation and whether this is
inevitable or whether it needs to be examined and challenged.
Second, and incomparably more important, yes, it's interesting
and instructive and merits attention that Mark Foley did what he
did and that the GOP leadership did not do much about it. I hope my
readers and fellow humans will not hate me too much if I say that
in a world where 3,000 women and children are raped and/or murdered
every day in Congo, a member of the United Nations, in which a
genuine genocide is going on in Sudan, a member of the United
Nations, in which more than fifty men and women per day are being
tortured with electric drills and murdered in Iraq, in which two of
the world's most dangerous and insane men, Kim Jong Il and Mohammed
Ahmadinejad, are developing nuclear weapons, the e-mail of one
deranged middle class white man does not really count to me as much
as it might to some other people.
In Ferris Bueller's Day Off, when Ferris's best friend
tells him that his Dad's favorite thing on earth is his Ferrari,
Ferris says, "A man with priorities so far out of whack does not
deserve such a fine car."
We do not devote more than a few instants each month to the rape
and murder in Congo. We barely notice the rape and genocide in
Darfur. No one on earth except George W. Bush and John Bolton and
Condoleezza Rice is trying to stop two maniacs from acquiring
nuclear weapons even though one of them has promised to wipe out
Israel if he gets them. But we can devote 24 hours a day, day after
day, to the e-mails of one nutty Member of Congress to a teenage
boy.
A country with its priorities so out of whack does not deserve
to be the world's shining city on a hill. Let's take a moment, pray
for guidance, turn Mr. Foley over to the proper mental health
authorities, and try to, as the moral exemplar of the world, use
every bit of strength we have to stop the slaughter of the
innocents now and in the future. Mark Foley is important, but to
me, he's no more important than those teenage girls in Congo who
get raped, have their arms chopped off, and then are murdered...and
there are a lot of them. Let's get our priorities straight. And
don't bother writing and telling me you hate me for caring more
about murder than about e-mails, even extremely bad e-mails. You're
not going to change me. Our challenge as a moral people is about
genocide far more than about sick individuals, even sick ones who
carry the initials M.C. after their names. When I reflect that we
live under the providence of a just God, I wonder how we will ever
explain how much time we have wasted.
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Five nights ago was Yom Kippur, the highest of Jewish High
Holidays. As I contemplate the now extinguished candles
memorializing my beloved mother and father and asking for God's
forgiveness of my endless sins, I want to say something.
I realize that my ability to pray to the Lord God, Jehovah, Lord
of the High Places, giver of the most precious gift of all, peace,
is entirely dependent on the courage and sacrifice of the men and
women of the armed forces of the United States of America. I would
have no life at all, would not even be alive, would not be able to
say a prayer, to hold my wife's hand, to hug my beloved dogs, to
walk in the sunshine, to swim under the night sky, to talk to my
friends, to eat a piece of fried chicken, to listen to Bob Dylan,
to sleep in clean sheets, were it not for the men and women who
sleep in muddy holes, walk down the most dangerous streets on earth
under 130 degree heat in full body armor, spend months without
their families, come back in pieces or not at all, for people they
never met.
Everything, every blessed part of my American life, my glorious
life as an American comes down to this: far better men and women
than I am offer up their lives to keep me and 300 million like me,
alive, well, and free.
We Jews are not supposed to pray on our knees, but I am on my
knees every morning and every night with thanks to the Lord God,
Jehovah, Lord of Hosts, who has given my country, the world and me
the real stars of modern life: the American military man, woman and
their endlessly courageous families: God's gifts.
topics:
Hollywood, Movies, Military, Iraq, Israel, United Nations, Nuclear Weapons