I can still remember sitting in a computer lab at the University
of New Hampshire early in my college career — and two years before
the Sept. 11 attacks — reading the first of what would turn out to
be many mass emails about atrocities being committed against women
in Afghanistan. The plight of Afghan women under the Taliban and
other assorted Mujahideen groups running their country had become
the cause du jour on campus, and with good cause. Some of
the tales culled from Amnesty International reports were so
terrible and heartbreaking they can never be forgotten.
I could not have then imagined the confluence of events that
would finally free the women of Afghanistan from decades of rape,
torture, murder, forced prostitution, or the public scarring,
beatings and humiliation, all done with impunity throughout the
1990s. Likewise, as I’ve already written elsewhere, the country’s
nascent experiment with global capitalism is beginning to change
the way Afghan women look at themselves and their role in the world
with a surprising alacrity.
I certainly never dreamed, even in the immediate aftermath of
Sept. 11 and the war that followed, that I would wake up one
morning in March 2005 to learn that the democratically elected
president of Afghanistan had just appointed the first female
provincial governor in the country’s history. Even as we mourn
every woman who was robbed of the privilege of seeing this day, the
progress of recent years is astounding.
Nevertheless, this monumental event was not accompanied by any
flurry of emails to my inbox. I saw no coverage of it on the
morning news. In fact, if I hadn’t read the one paragraph blurb
about the appointment on page A10 of the Boston Globe, I
may never have even realized it had occurred.
The future governor in question, Habiba Sarobi, currently one of
three female ministers in the government of Harmid Karzai, is, as
should come as no surprise, a quite brave woman. When Karzai
recently offered her a cushy ambassadorship outside of Afghanistan,
she turned it down.
“I want to be inside the country at the service of my people,”
she told the Associated Press, adding when her governor’s
appointment was made public, “Today is a very good day for me. It
is another important step toward women’s rights in
Afghanistan.”
It’s quite a contrast held up alongside testimonies gathered by
Amnesty International during the Taliban reign.
Here’s one particularly heinous bit:
“They shot my father right in front of me,” a 15-year-old Kabul
girl told Amnesty investigators in 1994. “He was a shop-keeper. It
was nine o’clock at night. They came to our house and told him they
had orders to kill him because he allowed me to go to school. The
Mujahideen had already stopped me from going to school, but that
was not enough. They then came and killed my father. I cannot
describe what they did to me after killing my father…”
And another:
“One night about five months ago [June 1994], armed guards came
to our house [in Farah]. There were six to seven of them. They
forced us to go to a corner of the room while they got hold of my
husband. They kept beating him violently, saying he had been
teaching girls at the village school. We all shouted for mercy but
they did not stop. They then stood him in front of me and my four
small children. One of them aimed a Kalashnikov at his heart and
shot him dead. The guard then said he was going to stay in the
house and marry me.”
There are many more such stories, and they should not be
forgotten. Women murdered for failing to cover their entire bodies;
for being raped; for learning to read. Families wantonly
slaughtered attempting to protect their teenage daughters and
sisters from being violated or, worse, claimed permanently by
middle-aged men. Many of the fundamentalists who participated in
these crimes still walk the streets of Kabul, Jalalabad, and
Kandahar. The culture war to free these women permanently is an
ongoing battle and there is nothing those who prefer a return to
the caveman days would like better than to see the civilized world
take its eye off the ball again.
Life as a woman in Afghanistan, as organizations such as Amnesty
International continue to point out, is far from perfect. Many women
have been liberated from the Taliban, but still live in the shadows
of a culture that demeans them and curtails their hopes and dreams
as a matter of commonplace tradition. It is the example of brave
women like Sarobi that will plants the seeds of the mental
liberation that is such a necessary compliment to their physical
liberation. As some journalists, most notably Ralph Peters, have
pointed out, this change is not a perk of civilization, but a
prerequisite. No country that oppresses half its population can
hope to prosper in the modern world.
So what does Sarobi hope to use her governorship in the central
Bamiyan province to do? Promote tourism. It might seem a faraway
dream to many considering the long, rocky road ahead. But Sarobi
has already proven her ability to overcome much greater odds. Let’s
not forget her and the other women fighting to make sure the
horrors Afghan women suffered during the 1990s never come back
again. I never want to feel so helpless reading my email again.