The attempt to bridge the difference between men and women when
it comes to combat assignment in the armed services has failed. If
Saddam Hussein has served no other earthly purpose we can at least
thank him for that lesson.
We recall the tragic wrong turn of the 507th maintenance outfit
in Iraq during the push northward that saw several members killed
and some captured. One was a Native American woman from the
southwest who left some children with her mother. It turned out
that she was killed. Another was also a mother who left children
with her mother but was rescued alive. In neither case was a father
or husband mentioned.
There are an estimated 100,000 women in service who are parents.
How many have husbands is not known. Our culture has reduced such
vital statistics to the catch-all “single parent” for those who are
unmarried, whether through divorce or mere popular convention.
The point is a male serviceman who leaves a wife, or even an
unmarried mother of his children, at least leaves a parent for his
children. His loss in combat is mourned by a nation, but he at
least has somebody to receive a folded flag, and probably a known
somebody to parent his surviving children.
Try this out. A woman entrusted with the care of four of her
grandchildren when her daughter was deployed from Fort Hood, Texas,
in March, is jailed in Waco, Texas, on charges of assault in the
beating death of four-year-old Destiny Moore. Army Spc. Tammy Moore
had left Destiny and her three other children, girls ages 7 and 8,
and a 6-year-old boy, with her mother in Fort Hood when her outfit,
the 720th Military Police Battalion, shipped out. The battered
child succumbed to blunt force trauma, according to the FBI, on May
13. The FBI says the other children also bore bruises and were
placed in Child Protective Services. Spc. Moore returned from
overseas this past weekend.
The Moore case is not one of parental combat death, or even
capture. It is a case of a woman in service being called from her
proper place by the exigencies of war.
The argument does not involve the relative war-faring capability
of gender. It does involve the relative damage done when the
ultimate sacrifice is made. Women who find the argument sexist are
right. We can better afford to kill men than women, simply because
of what is left with their passing.